it's better u ask him in person. sometime it's difficult for man to decide whom side he take and so they decide to take side with mothers and they feel that wives will understand it.

i asked him even beged i. front of him plzz take my side it hurts me alot if im right then why dont u refuse me all the time his only ans is i will say next time

ok. then I think he must be afraid of his mother . don't able to take ur side out of fear what she says. no need to beg if u r right. hope slowly he will start taking ur side. better u guys can have ur own good time.

yes he believes that u can understand and if he takes ur side then his mother will get hurt. So don't expect much from ur husband. you take your own stand and tell ur husband atleast to stay neutral and not to say anything against you if not supporting you. your mother in law is feeling insecure as she is sharing his son with u,so talk to her clearly in a lenient way and make her understand that you are not taking away her son...her son loves her and will always but she need to accept that you are also there in his life and both of ur fights are hurting d person whom you both Love.