hey u know what happens when you expect and believe that when you happily meet someone and in return you get hate and ignorance juat becoZ i want to be genuine about myself
loukeoc
hii
loukeoc
whats wrong
clarke34
hey weird0-0, sufy, zary,loukeoc please help
clarke34
hii
weird0_0
it's okay to feel that way... it's not your fault in that but you have to accept this...you can't control what other think
clarke34
anyone
loukeoc
whats wrong
loukeoc
im here
clarke34
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9😞😞
loukeoc
9 what??
clarke34
i said no to happiness no to laughing no to love becoz this emotions are very dangerous
clarke34
this feelings only bring pain when you return to reality
weird0_0
these seem dangerous but when you do it to yourself it's the best feeling ever
loukeoc
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noo! dont say no to them! sometimes love can hurt but its okay bcz one day you'll meet someone who is meant to be in your life
loukeoc
you should let yourself be happy you should let yourself feel emotions bcz thats what humans are made for
weird0_0
exactly
loukeoc
feeling emotions is the best thing bcz feeling emotions is what we live by everyday. its okay to be hurt sometimes everyone gets hurt but it heals
weird0_0
I'm not that great at giving suggestions but I can listen when you want to talk...🙃
loukeoc
so stay strong. i believe in you!
loukeoc
let yourself feel emotions let yourself be happy let yourself be sad let yourself be mad let yourself be angry. its normal to feel emotions
clarke34
and when you meet them you love them you care them then when it becomes their habit they get bored and they find ways to distance themselves from you like 1 ignoring 2 taking you for granted 3 when you ask then fight starts 4 then you stop talking then game overrrrr☹️
loukeoc
im proud of you for staying strong! but you gotta stay strong and fightt moree
loukeoc
try too socialise with some people, read books, watch movies/ series do whatever makes you happy
loukeoc
yes sometimes people are weird and will ignore and leave you even if you were very close. i understand that from my own experiencem it was childhood friend and my best friend and she left me. but it heals bcz you know what? let the people who are not meant to be in your life leave. you'll meet the people that are meant to be in your life
clarke34
let me now say this from my inner self im dying inside
loukeoc
now i met amazing people that make me know my worth. let God work. he will not let you down. Jesus, God's son, loves us so much
loukeoc
say whatever you want I'm hearing
loukeoc
if you want you can text me on insta : you_matter_vibes its a motivation account to help people
loukeoc
is everything okay?
clarke34
im almost done with myaelf
clarke34
why people laugh knowing that they cant ecape this sick world
loukeoc
you're not done with yourself
loukeoc
you are an amazing special person
loukeoc
and you are going to fight
loukeoc
i know you're hurt and i understand but you are going to fight bcz you are so strong and i know that
loukeoc
do you want to talk on Instagram? if you want dm me on the account you_matter_vibes(motivation account)
clarke34
you really saying that
clarke34
🙁
loukeoc
and know that no matter what happens you should and will fight. God loves you so much and he is always there for you. he wants you to fight bcz he created you strong amazing and special
loukeoc
ofc i am saying that. i know you're strong and you're going to fight and stay strong
loukeoc
so we make a deal? you are going to fight and stay strong alright?
clarke34
can i really do that
loukeoc
yess. i believe in you
loukeoc
i know that you are soo strong and you're going to fight
clarke34
you want me to fight for myself😰
loukeoc
yess. youre going to fight for yourself, the people you love,the people that love you, for me, for God
loukeoc
but the main 2 youre going to fight for are you and God
loukeoc
God loves you so much and he wants you to fight
clarke34
i want to change myself will you guide me
loukeoc
did you know God sent his only son Jesus 2022 years ago to save us? Jesus made many miracles and saved many people, and until now he saves people. Jesus died on the cross bcz he loves us. so know that you are never alone. God is always by your side
clarke34
i mean nothing much only support
loukeoc
ofc I'll try myself to help you.
loukeoc
ofc I'm always there for you
loukeoc
how can i help you
clarke34
i can say will you talk to me on this app because im very inteovert and shy and i need support
clarke34
i demand nothing just emotional support
loukeoc
ofc I'll talk to you. whatever you want
loukeoc
and if you want( as you wish) you could dm me on the account you_matter_vibes
loukeoc
okay im there for you
loukeoc
what do you want to talk about now?
clarke34
i shy away and get scared of rejection of people so how can take my baby steos
clarke34
steps
clarke34
i havent slept now for 2 days
loukeoc
you should not be scared of rejection of people. some people will reject you but its okay you know why? bcz these people are not meant to be in your life
loukeoc
i used to be shy like you and i wouldn't talk to anyone. by step by step it got easier, and now i can talk a lottt more to people
loukeoc
first of all try socializing with some people. if you are with someone close to you and they start a conversation with someone you could try to introduce yourself or open something up
loukeoc
you try complimenting people . it will.help you socialize and will make them happy(:
loukeoc
if you're in a public place you could ask people about common things. like for example i hate/ love thid weather. or you could share news for example: did you know that..
loukeoc
take step my step and i understand it being hard at first but it will get easier
clarke34
can you give me tips of talking to strangers without discloaing personal information about yourself
loukeoc
if you got nervous while talking to someone you could try counting numbers or imagining colors it could help
loukeoc
take step my step and make the effort into talking to people. the first time is the hardest but you should be strong and nake the effort and takk to someone
clarke34
does my mood play any role in these things
clarke34
sorry about these things but please dont mind i serously need help
loukeoc
you could talk about anything not related to your personal info. for example talk about something common in the country, something that happened in the area you both are. anf if you are okay with it you could talk about movies or series or books you have watched or read
loukeoc
your mood can play a role. but i think the main reason you arent talking to people is either being shy or having social anxiety
loukeoc
but sometimes if you have a bad mood you could feel like you dont want to talk to anyone
loukeoc
what do you want to discuss more? or do you have more questions about that?
clarke34
yes i have social anxiety
clarke34
heyy how you pass your free time
clarke34
thnks for listening
loukeoc
i sometimes talk to my friends, sometimes i watch movies, do sports anything that im feeling to do
loukeoc
how about you? how do you pass your free time
clarke34
do you live in india
loukeoc
and btw you're welcome. im always there for you. if you later need anything dm me on you_matter_vibes on Instagram
loukeoc
nope not in india
clarke34
is this app worldwide
loukeoc
yes i thinkk
clarke34
okk so is it day or night wherever you arr
clarke34
are
loukeoc
night. you?
clarke34
night too
loukeoc
nicee
loukeoc
are you feeling better?
clarke34
well i dont know just i was feeling lonely
clarke34
and scared
loukeoc
you are never lonely. there will always be God with you. God is always by your side and always willing to hear you. and I'm there for you!
loukeoc
why are you scared?
clarke34
i was feeling noone will listen to my internal state of being
loukeoc
noo! im there for you
loukeoc
in sure many other people on this app would have helped you too
loukeoc
is there anything else you want to discuss about?
clarke34
well i really appreciate your precious time for my concerns
clarke34
good night
loukeoc
well youre welcome. i had a good time talking to you. i hope i helped