Let them be. From what I've seen in my life those who just be ok with us later leaves us when we are down or stabs in the back.
anxiouschough8
so what should I do
David6124
Even if you don't have many friends, just one would be enough who'd be there through thick and thin. And if you don't have one like that, don't worry, you will find them when ure meant to find them.
anxiouschough8
who should I be friends with the person who told me the truth about those backstabber, those friends who r OK or the actual backstabbers
anxiouschough8
idk when Im going to find a friend like thar
David6124
Just live your own life. Let them be. You don't have to pretend be close to them, and you don't have to be hostile either. Just be neutral.
David6124
don't have to pretend to be*
anxiouschough8
Ok don't pretend but who should I sit with in class
anxiouschough8
I have no idea what I'm doing
David6124
Who ure currently sitting with right now?
David6124
Out of curiosity may I ask what the backstabber told about you? was it something personal that you have shared with her or something fabricated or gossip
anxiouschough8
I used to sit with those backstabbers who were good to me but for the past 2 days I sat with this girl they don't like then they started giving me bitch vibes
anxiouschough8
well this friend told me that the girl I sit next to said* PLZ SIT WITH ME , I FIND HER ANNOYING TRY SITTING NEXT TO HER ONE DAY*
anxiouschough8
by her she meant me
anxiouschough8
she said she doesn't like sitting with me and finds me annoying I'm not sure if this is true
anxiouschough8
and told me that the girl I sit next to is a double faced bitch
anxiouschough8
plz help me
David6124
Just sit wherever you're feeling like that time. One thing I've learned is that none of them will be there later in your life. It will be limited to a Hi msg in 6 months or a random meme that they share in the class group. But our scores sure as hell matters a lot. I'm struggling cause my scores are low. Everyone wants 'Best of the best" and the ones that fell behind won't even have a chance to get back up. Due to certain so called friends in my class, and the stories that they made, Noone used to speak to me. If they speak, and those darn girls see that, next story would be made by saying I'm sleeping with that girl. Who'd want to talk with me. I used to skip classes since I didn't have a place to sit In a 95% girls majority class. Earlier we used to sit with girls only. And as a result of not attending class, not being able to focus while being In class, my marks plummeted. So let them be, just focus on ur studies and your career
anxiouschough8
yeah ur right I should focus on my career rather than this bullshit.
anxiouschough8
I need help in one more thing
David6124
What is it?
anxiouschough8
should i rejoin my maths tuitions
anxiouschough8
I used to go there but got in a fight with a friend there also
David6124
What grade are you studying in? And do you find math difficult?
anxiouschough8
but after what u said it hit me idc what that girl thinks of me anymore
anxiouschough8
kinda I'm in 9th
David6124
Hmm. If you find math difficult and needs the tuition just go for it. Your base needs to be strong in math. It will help you in many places.
anxiouschough8
what field r u in, what do u do for a living
anxiouschough8
I'm in 9th but I'm still not sure what I wanna do science, commerce or arts😔
David6124
Currently a research fellow in Biotechnology field. I want to pursue PhD but my scores are low.
anxiouschough8
it's frustrating
anxiouschough8
woah thats fancy Im not even sure what biotechnology is
David6124
It happens at every point of life. See I still have doubts about what I want to do. I didn't think I'd chose biotechnology until I studied a chapter of it in my higher secondary. I never imagined I'll do M.Tech either nor work as a Research fellow. Even though I don't like the work I'm doing right now, I don't hate it either. I'm still in the phase of finding my passion and one day it will hit me and that day I'll leave this all and pursue it.