how do I stop over thinking that he's cheating on me when he's working and i know that he working but i still text him stuff like are you cheating on me or do you love me over and over and we trying to get back together again but its hard for me to talk to my friends about him cause every time i do they say he's probably cheating on me or he's a F-boy but i can't stop talking about him because I love him so much so how do i stop asking him questions over and over again? how do i stop talking about him to my friends?

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lazyeland2 · Answer

heya

lazyeland2 · Answer

how long u guys have been together

anxiousthrush0 · Answer

hey

lazyeland2 · Answer

do u want to talk?

anxiousthrush0 · Answer

4 months i had no choice i was forced to breakup with him because of my mom she didn't even get to meet him

anxiousthrush0 · Answer

sure

lazyeland2 · Answer

ohh ok

anxiousthrush0 · Answer

yes

lazyeland2 · Answer

im a call person but I'll try to express whatever i feel on text

lazyeland2 · Answer

i think u r text person

anxiousthrush0 · Answer

yes i love texting but my ex doesn't that's one of the problems too

lazyeland2 · Answer

ohh ok

anxiousthrush0 · Answer

yes

lazyeland2 · Answer

im sorry for that

lazyeland2 · Answer

okhh so tell me

anxiousthrush0 · Answer

its ok

lazyeland2 · Answer

what are you feeling exactly now

anxiousthrush0 · Answer

now i feel anxious but i just talked to him and he's working but sometimes he doesn't text me or leaves me on read and i overthink

lazyeland2 · Answer

what does he do?

lazyeland2 · Answer

what job

anxiousthrush0 · Answer

he's assistant manager

lazyeland2 · Answer

and u ?

anxiousthrush0 · Answer

im in college

lazyeland2 · Answer

oh okh

anxiousthrush0 · Answer

yes

lazyeland2 · Answer

have you tried to move on?

anxiousthrush0 · Answer

yes but we keep going back to each other plus we've been friends for years

lazyeland2 · Answer

yrrrrr

anxiousthrush0 · Answer

yh

lazyeland2 · Answer

why I'm lazy at text 😭😭

anxiousthrush0 · Answer

lol

lazyeland2 · Answer

umm do you want to connect somewhere?

anxiousthrush0 · Answer

no

lazyeland2 · Answer

okie

anxiousthrush0 · Answer

you can just tell me what i should do about my friends not liking him for no reason and how do i stop talking to him about my friends and how do i stop over thinking?

lazyeland2 · Answer

all the best i hope things will get better for you

anxiousthrush0 · Answer

ohh k

TheCalmestopener · Answer

Stop sharing to ur friends everytime u talk to them about him remind urself that u don't have to talk about him to ur friends

TheCalmestopener · Answer

Also, if u r trying to get him back dont ask questions again and again. He might leave thinking u don't believe him

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