I go to library to study daily since i am preparing for my civil services exams. i take my own books and study at the general area because the place is spacious. Today an old man who came to study newspaper asked me to move out of the place and told me to study at the allotted space for studying my own books. He was quite rude to me and he kind of shouted. All the people were looking at me and that moment was so humiliating. I went to the librarian and asked if its not ok to study in the general area. He said some people might not like others studying their own books in newspapers area, and he aked me to study upstairs. I was so upset that no one ever completed but this old man shouted at me in front of so many people. I just couldn't talk back at the old man since i was scared, I took my bag and walked out of the place. Now i feel i can not go back to library. I am scared what the people think of me there. Should i not go to library anymore . please give me a solution.

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Harshitha · Answer

i Feel...Go to the Library and Sit in the same Place again and Talk Back.....Is That Library Gov Owened ? or Private?

nidhi · Answer

u have paid for the library...its ur right to study there..dont feel embarrassed.people will forget everything soon.u just try to feel n stay normal..dont take anybody 's shit....upsc needs focus and dedication..such people are just distraction..ignore them.

Harshitha · Answer

Start From Now to Fight against  Not Tolerating Things and Which is Not Good . even if he wanted the Place he could have asked It Politely........Sit in the same Place again and Talk Back to Him....You will be Future IAS / What ever Your working for .......Always Speak for what is Rgt....Your society Representative Tommarrow...It's Okay If u feel scared Think Today And If u feel It's Crt speak For it.....this will Boost You for Tommarrow If any Situation arise U will be able to speak

Sagittarius03 · Answer

don't need to get humiliated!! and you know what I really appreciate about you even if that old man said things to you, you didn't talk back.

Harshitha · Answer

talk to Him Politely And Answer his question and Make Him Understand he was wrong For addressing if so Loudly and How is It Even Corrent...In a Polite way.....

Sr_raheja · Answer

there is nothing to be upset about.....u are going to give a civil service exam....how can this work if you start getting affected so easily by people. Listen from one ear and remove it from other. Be the elephant in between dogs .let the dogs bark...keep ur head high and walk with pride like an elephant...u are the future my dear......

ini · Answer

thanks to everyone who took their time to comfort me. your words are medicine

Need someone to talk to!!

not able to accept my reality !!

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