facing gap in relationship because of less time involvement

Relationship Issues

Hi this is Vijay, I am in love with my girl since 8 years. She accepted my proposal after 1.5 years from the day I proposed. We were in good relationship for first 3 years, later I decided to start something on my own part time just to get settled with her as early as possible. So I started networking and from then was not able to give time, we had lot of fights, I ignored her like anything, but still I loved her and cared her prosperity. After all this, she never gave up on me. There were instances where she needed me the most but I was not there for support due to my belief in luck and all. But still never stopped loving her. And we got back again and again, we had fights she patched up. And now I left my networking as it was ruining my relationship and started fresh. Now we had fights and she wants to move on. How should I convey that I love her even more than I used to, and get the issues sorted out

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Sahitya MG

Hi Vijay. Relationship is a two way street. The efforts should be from both the side. If it's one sided then the partner often gets frustrated and loses motivation to continue. Try to have a honest conversation where you can genuinely tell her why you started net working and felt sorry that you couldnt be there when she needed you. And you realised everything. And assure her that in future that yiur relationship won't be one sided and you will also thrive to complete the bond. Acknowledging the fact that she is hurt will give you clear picture on what could be done.

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Thanks Sahitya, we met few days back and I apologised for all my flaws. She says even she knew why I was doing all these stuffs, and she says she tried giving her 100% when we patched up again, but she was not able to give her 100% and she said she is not happy about not giving 100% to our relationship. She asked for some time as of now, so that she can heal herself to believe me. At the same time she says that she can not assure anything of us. So I am worried about that. Is there a way to restore those trusts and get her back. I am worried that if she does not take out whatever is inside she might go down again. So was trying to make her feel comfortable enough to talk whatever she as kept inside. As of now, I just want her to be free and take out everything she is bothered about. Once I know the issues can further think about how to resolve those issues. I feel breakup is not the only solution for any relationship.

Time is the best healer.Give her space to heal is the good solution you have thought of. Wish you good luck .

Thanks for your time sahitya.

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