My mom says that I do it I do have the bad experiences like sexual assault , physical abuse and verbal abuse over the years
e_usher12
Well you don’t know if you have or not unless you get yourself assessed by a mental health professional
Chai
They did say I have suppressed trauma but my family says it's all in my head
Zoya Ahmad
Hey
Why are you faming a trauma?
Do you want something to happen in your favour or is it happening naturally?
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Chai
didnt get you
Chai
I was told this by my psychologist that's why I have some idea , I'm a student of psychology myself
Zoya Ahmad
I am sorry I must have read you query wrong.
Why do you think you are faking a childhood trauma.
Do you have any memory of what has happened in the past?
What are the problems you are facing due to this?
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Chai
I dont have any clear memories but I think I'm faking it cuz my parents tell me all the time that that I imagine scenarios that dont happen so I'm really confused n i dont trust any memories i have
Chai
even now I only remember good memories but all of them dont have my family
Chai
good memories r only from last one year and only with my boyfriend
Chai
ost ppl with the trauma get into unhealthy relationships, although I was attracted to toxic guys , decided to go out with a really great guy . That's the other reason i have that doubt
Zoya Ahmad
It’s good that you have good cherishable memories.
Has there been any incident that has affected your relationship or any other sphere pf your life?
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Zoya Ahmad
Have you tried not talking about your childhood and dealing with situations in an assertive way with your boyfriend?
I am asking this because usually we tend to seek sympathy in situations of crisis.
It would be helpful if you tell us about any incident that has happened and where you have sought sympathy talking about your childhood trauma?
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Chai
I do tell my boyfriend about everything that has happened recently cuz when theres a problem I suddenly go away in the middle of text for 4 or 5 hrs and a i dont like to lie so i tell him
Chai
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Chai
I have issues with not feeling comfortable with my body but that issue has significantly reduced since I started dating
Chai
the incident resulting in body image issues is my mom making jokes about my body, I know she didnt mean to hurt me but she did it so many times it affected me poorly
Zoya Ahmad
I can understand, remarks made on body unintentionally leaves a very long impact in our lives and sometime the sense of self love never develops.
But you mentioned that it has significantly reduced since you have started dating.
Isn’t this a sign that you don’t need to be an ideal size to be loved.
It’s about the type of person you are.
Accept yourself as you are and if you want to change yourself work on it, don’t stress over it. Focus on your holistic growth not just complying to societal standards.
About the problem of escaping the conversation why don’t you confront assertively at that moment and then ask your partner to give you some time. It’s completely normal to take your time and clear your thoughts it’s actually better then having a heated argument.
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