but I really need to forgive and move on with life with him but my heart is shattered..i don't know where to start this process
curiousdinosaur6
you dont need to forgive to move on. j Remember how bad he did to you and have hope that you will get something better and till then i have to work on myself. this shldd be your thinking
stressedchough9
forgiving is good when u hold grudges it bring hate to ur heart choose to rmr the good about this person and forgive them say what needs to be said and move on with the air clear
stressedchough9
wants the trust is gone its gone choice wrre made time to leave to better ur self and thts by self love
minur
thank you for all your comments.. i will tell my story i know him since 12+ years since college and got into relationship after college but then 3 yrs later we broke up..it was hard but I always loved him and after another 3 yrs i approached him and we were together again..i felt that all my wishes came true and a year later we got married..now after 2.5 yrs of my marriage something happened and i feel betrayed and my heart and soul is broken..i love him so much that i am struggling to get past those bad instances but can't..its so overwhelming that i don't feel like living anymore..i have everything but now I feel i lost my love..what shall I do..pls suggest..
stressedchough9
I think ur scared to be alone u been wit this person so long tht u don't know life without him separate for a while take time to rediscover ur self before u made him the center of ur life and if u were to break up u have nothing for ur self so take a break find and decide if this relationship is worth it don't stay cuz u scared to be alone
minur
Ya i think so..i need to work on myself first and think about my relationship
stressedchough9
🥰 glad ta hear
minur
thanks for hearing me out..
stressedchough9
ofc anytime 👍
obsessedunicorn8
there is no way u will able to forgive him an u will never able to trust him again accept the situation and go for travelling leave that guy or girl whatever the person is