There's a school friend who only calls me when she needs to vent or brag. I attended her engagement and asked for pics, She didn't view my text for a month, then sent me a photo album link with 2600+ photos in it. Now she occasionally calls me but I don't pick up. She is taking me for granted. What shall I do?

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bearwiththickhead · Answer

remind her and yourself if there is any common hobby that you both share and start meeting each other to do that hobby sometimes

stuckbutterfly · Answer

if you feel you are not valued don't talk

Trojan005 · Answer

you are doing great don't need to vow down

excitedTomatoe7 · Answer

@bearwiththickhead- we live in different cities now

excitedTomatoe7 · Answer

@stuckbutterfly, @trojan- I hope I'm doing the right thing by ignoring her calls. She never cares about me she is narcissistic. she calls once every 2-3 months to brag her wealth. She didn't have time to view my text for a month, why should I take out time to pick her calls?

Trojan005 · Answer

yes u are doing right man...most of the girls are like this only just ignore her that she don't exist.

excitedTomatoe7 · Answer

@trojan005- I'm also a girl, but yes I agree most girls are mean. you're right

Recovering_babe · Answer

there's a chance that after engagement she is busy attending someone else's calls😜 but i realise that you are feeling a little subconscious about your place with her. withdraw a little and see if she notices.

bearwiththickhead · Answer

if you both want each other as friends, meeting once a year won't be a problem

excitedTomatoe7 · Answer

@recovering_babe- thanks, yes, I've been acting distant, not calling her back like I usually would. we were school friends back in 2013. she calls me her best friend but only calls to vent or brag. I feel like she doesn't value me enough. even on her engagement I flew from another city and she didn't even pick my calls when I reached the venue

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