can i help you?

it's ok to be different. There is no good or bad in it

but i feel like because of my mental health issues i have been withdrawn myself from people

that's ok too for some time

but i don't feel ok you know

deep down i feel like I'm the only bad person

why?

you know what happened that makes me feel this way

hlw dosto namaste sabhi ko ..m veer 🙏

yes i would like to know

like 10 days ago we shifted into new office and that day one of my colleague who is female she was asking for the tea and the tea is not coming so she asked me and to the other girl who is new that does we know how to make a tea. so the other girl said know completely the she asked me and i said yes and then she says that i will make a tea so I asked her like everyday and then she said yes. and she's a lady with very bad tough and with very bad tone of speaking. and then she said i don't know how to make a tea my mother in law does that for me. she's married and she says this and i got a little angry on her words like i don't go to the office so that i can make them tea right it's not my work even if it's for a joke the tough should sound like a joke

i said like does everything is written to done by me like I'm a Gujarati so i said " kem badhu mane lakhiya piyu che" and the she was like what have you done so you are saying everything in a very bad way like in a fighting way

and since then she doesn't speak to me nicely and we shit just right next to each other

hey you are there?

ok. But that does not make you a bad person. You both took it to heart. You both dont get along because you both have different natures. But then you will be sitting next to her and can make things right because its not that big issue.

you don't know her she's very bad when it's comes to speaking

then will you be changing your working position?

and then there's this other girl who has joined just like 1 month age so when we were in our old office i used to drop her half way from my activa because we had a same route back the but after shifting to the new office she accepte me to drop her as usual but the way I go it's totally different like it's like i go on a short cuts because it's save my time so she used to ask me like from which route i go and i told him multiple times but she still ask me so infornt of people it's looks like I'm the bad or i don't want to drop her so one day she again asked me so i said you can come with me and if you don't find any rikshaw you can walk from were i take turn so she comes with me i drop her that day

and then the other day i asked her that will she come with me she said she is going with her friend and since then she going again in a bus and rikshaw but since then she's not talking to me nicely i don't know why

i feel like people are so fucking mean if we are beneficial for them they will talk to me on for that others wise they'll not

bro if she is doing that....she is showing that she was talking to you because you were dropping her. And the thing is you need not to do social service like this, you were being kind to let her ride with you when you had same routes but now you will have to take burden of dropping her in different route. Just don't do anything, behave normally as you usually talk to them and if that person is not being nice after that, you should consider backing off

I'm just doing that actually when she was new she was talking to me alot and after that incident she is being very close to that lady with whom i had argument and the other new girl

and i feel alone in the office like I'm the one who don't go along with others in the office

I understand how u feel I think u should try to talk to them bcuz I think that it's my own problem it's that no one likes me bcuz at my age 9 I'm to matured