I don't know how to make u feel better but I am also going through something similar. I feel empty. Completely. It feels like so much was taken away from me and now I stand here barehanded and empty minded. I don't know what's my next step I am just staring at myself.
MaryWin
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I feel you and idk what's gonna happen and what am I suppose to do . I don't even fight or argue because I think that's pointless .
Solitude
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I think its time we focus on ourselves. We might have been spending too much time on everybody else except us.
MaryWin
you are right but in the mean time how should we reply them if they reach out or yk just text
Solitude
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I think this is the time. From now on u should be ur first priority. Whatever the other person does shouldn't bother u. This is what I am telling myself too. Just be u. U have had enough. Its just one life we have and we don't have to feel empty like that. We choose what we wanna fill ourselves with.
kapil
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hey I don't know the matter but I would say no need to reply to anyone just give your 100% work in silence and they will get the answers themselves.
MaryWin
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gonna follow what you said 👍 thank you so much yk I never share things with anyone but here it feels good . again thank you
MaryWin
you are right kapil but yk people who always think about themselves never get the answer they instead start blaming you for not even reply but you are right
kapil
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i think than there is no point to get bothered by that person at all
kapil
I have faced the similar situation and what you said has happened to me I feel but than I stopped bothering by that person completely
MaryWin
so are you with that person now ?
kapil
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yes in fact is a family member but you know we have to learn in order to stop the damage that is being done to us
kapil
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something similar has happened to me in a relationship too, I tried my best to sort everything out on a good manner but after a point you have to understand that it is not worth, but the respect towards the person should never fade away. I know it is not same for everyone I am just sharing my experience
MaryWin
Yes it all would have been so easy if we never feel anything
kapil
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I think initially its not in our control so we are going to feel things but as each day pass we may learn how to deal with it.
MaryWin
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it's like I can't stay with him and can't stay without him
kapil
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I understand what you are saying. can I ask you what you think that can help you ? is staying with him is in your control? (as forcing it doesn't work anyway)but staying without him can be in control so what if you work on what can be controlled by your mind. see I am not suggesting you to make any decisions. I am trying to give a image that how things are in our hands and not in.
