Fear of committment afraid to be hurt by the one I love the most

Question

I lnove this guy but he holds back him feelings to me,he is afraid to be vulnerable with me and even if I love him I have reached a point I no longer tolerate his old patterns which I respond with silence no response when he tries to maintain his facade.

madorange8 · Answer

dont waste your time for someone who don't care and if you think he cares give him space you will know if you matter in him life or not .

exactinglollies2 · Answer

I cut him off this year march and he came back to me last month telling me he learnt his actions hurt me but didn't open up fully to me about what happened that he mistreated me like that

exactinglollies2 · Answer

do you think I deserve to know what happened?

madorange8 · Answer

it he is not sharing everything then there is something he is hiding from you

madorange8 · Answer

and if he consider you as his better half he wouldn't hide anything from you

i am an immature person so don't judge me i am mental patient

Frustrating

help me please

how do I change for the better?