No, I also feel that if I get too close to someone I will lose them and hence I try to set a boundary for myself that I don't get hurt later.
Whereas I have observed at times I also lack the continuous effort you need to invest in any relationship to have them lasting forever.
Yah exactlyy! this anxiety just messes up the things!😔
i feel the same way since my fiance was murdered in front of my then 13 yr old son back in 2007