find a goal

i had a goal. was working towards it. it ended. there is nothing left

hang on.. you need to vent out first..cud be very personal issues..m here you can share your heart out

i have never found love in my life. i have just given love.. every bit of myself. but no one loves me back

life has its highs n lows.. but giving up on life just because of lows is not right

i found someone. he was causal i was in love... did so much for him.. he said he'll marry me and now he backed out. it is so difficult for me to think of going back to how things were. i started planning for the new home.. ordered things

Start loving, caring for your self now

i don't think i love myself. i don't love myself

it was your plan your dream why are you associating with a guy who didnt value your worth. build it for yourselfrself. live for yourself. love yourself

try and reach out helping others selflessly now.. service you know

i have started eating chocolates and junk food on purpose. have gained so much weight. when everything seemed its finally settled... everything fell apart

i had planned we'll move and get married once i get promoted. i got promoted today

and its all so empty. whats the use when i can't have someone with me. when i can't have love

You should not harm or hurt yourself because someone else did too. You are your life dont make someone else the purpose or reason of your life. Always remember only you are important and answerable for your life.

i am sooo proud on your promotion.... and so should be you. dont you see people are recognising your efforts and hard work. If he decided to quit he was not the right person in your life

He was not meant for you..it seems that you regret much on what you did for him than that you actually love him and later he ditched you

Is that so... think carefully

omg JANE!! YOURE SO AWESOME NEVER THINK THAT THINGS ARE OVER!! people start afresh at such a wide range of ages!! considering that you were about to get married I assume that you're still enjoying your youth !! think of what your little self what tell you right now! think of everything you ever wanted and don't settle for nothing less!!! I'm not highly motivated right now either but I have went through the phase where I associated my value with being in love or getting married. it's not at all what determines the success of your life and rn you have everything !! you can make new friends you can find new partners you can explore new things in life.. and the best part, the only restriction on you.. doesn't exist anymore. the best thing to do rn would be to go down the memory lane and think of what your younger would want you to associate yourself with! that young once so very confident Jane the one with all the dreams in her eyes.. that Jane wants you to be happy right now.. so be so

it's heartbreak...just give it time, focus on doing something you like...better yourself in any aspect, this'll get you that sweet dopamine...learn to draw, learn a language, get fit...whatever works for you...once you get enough dopamine not only will you move on and feel better about yourself, but you'll radiate a shine of happiness that'll attract better men to you in the near future!

i always wanted babies. i bought the first gift for my baby when i was in college. i think that dream is gone. i am 33.. invested 3 years in him. finally i thought i will have a family

learn to love your self fist then only you are be able to love others.. other wise

you don't need a husband to have a baby

Then how'd a baby come with out a father?

Dear nothing is as precious as ur own life so hang on even if you're tired of life. I can understand you because it's same for me too. So let us both try our best. if possible you try to keep urself busy so that you'll be less stress.. May God give you the strength to bear the hardest time in life

you are fed because you have only saw only the half of your life trust me life is beautiful try to lived it in another way

same but we can't give up, we have to keep going. What if tomorrow something that you were waiting for happens, we never know what happens. life changes in ways that we don't expect it. Always remember you can't rise if you don't fall <3