Well you need to explain him on how it’s affecting you and tell him your not in a right space now. You have the power and it’s your life

I told him but he is not accepting he kept on saying I can help but he isn't helping but makin it worse

Tell him assertively that you don’t want it and stop communicating.

His house is near he'll come and create a scene

Well it’s not right of him to do. You should stay away from him and avoid as much as you can

Can I elaborates the whole scenario

Yeah sure

I mean we have been friends for 13 years and for some years we lost contact but now from the previous year we are still in contact and now comes the main problem he really doesn't have many friends and always bug me with his past stories like I listened to them once but I don't want to listen to it again and agian and if I help one of my other friends with anything he says you don't have to they are not your close friend and all. And he always brings like how many years we have been friends or so. I told him that now a days I'm not in good energy to talk or to see someone but he ain't giving a second though about it and saying I'll come talk to you but I don't wanna I want space man I want space... Sorry for the long paragraph

It’s okay. Just relax and tell him the reason as to why your not in a good mood. Also, make it clear to him that if he doesn’t stop this then you will stop talking to him completely regardless of whatever he does. Try this and keep me updated as to what happened. I am off to sleep, will see ya tomorrow. Gudnite and 🤗

Okay thanks for listening and good night

Listen don’t give into his trap of creating a scene you as he is using it to scare you. Just tc of yourself

Okay ☺☺