Not having your anger or pain acknowledged by your partner can be painful. You might want to consider what makes you feel stuck in this relationship. Further, rather than focusing on how she reacts, take this opportunity to seriously consider your boundaries, what is negotiable in a relationship and what isn't. Addressing the issue with this clarity about your hard limits will allow for more effective communication between the two of you.
Talk to your wife. Communication is the best way to solve all the problems in any relationship.
Get out bro!! If you don’t wanna hurt yourself anymore further....get a new life!
You should probably see what exactly are the messages, you should confront her colleague and make him understand that what he’s doing isn’t right.
Figure out if she's serious about your relationship or not and if yes, ask her how she would feel if you did the same. If she's not serious then it's time for you to re evaluate your exit options.
Shucks! It does sound like you're in an odd situation but every obstacle has a solution. I think you both are married and hence a clear communication is necessary and vital for every challenge you two face as a couple.
In my opinion, you must really sit your wife down and have a serious conversation with her where you tell her how her interaction with other males upset you. You must tell her that her ignorant attitude towards this hurts you more and had you done the same, it would have hurt her as well.
I'm sure she will understand when you ask her to imagine herself in your shoes. Do tell her that you two are spouses. A relationship does involve understanding and acting upon each others needs even if it feels silly to you!
Talk to your wife. Tell her your expectations and get to know what is happening and why is it happening. Then try thinking if it is negotiable. Maybe you are thinking alot or maybe you are right. Communication is the best way to solve the problem. And if you still feel that its not working out and there is no understanding, then come out of this relationship. Its not worth your time anymore.