ahhh, pain of being not getting understanded is huge, I can understand how it feels to live stranger in own family
Hiwaga
1
I would suggest you to write down your pain somewhere. It really helps
justlikeme1
1
my parents are trying to get divorced.. my own father hates me as hell
justlikeme1
i dont know what to do... not shared this with anyone.. friends are always jealous of me i dont know why..they always isolate me..
arjun0813
in this scenario I would suggest you to connect yourself with almighty...he is the one controlling everything...pray as much as you can
justlikeme1
tried that too.. i have been suffering from my parents conflicts since childhood.. its getting worse day by day
bearwiththickhead
1
why do you want someone to understand you? Don't let yourself down like that. People only pretend to understand each other. The best someone can do for you is honesty. Don't look for understanding, look for honesty.
Hiwaga
yes pray to God
arjun0813
don't just try, keep your faith because almighty sees how much do you remember him in the times of adversity...he wants you to be patient and call upon him..pray
justlikeme1
i have to go through hell in my family.. and then pretend everything is fine infront of friends collegues.. and my friends are fake .. they only hurt me.. isolate me.. backstab me.. actually i got no real friend who wants good for me.. this makes me even more sad
arjun0813
who said you haven't got anyone? I'm there na
arjun0813
I'm listening to you and Im here for ya...I ain't backstabbing ya and you can talk to me
justlikeme1
thanks arjun0813
justlikeme1
please suggest me what should i do
arjun0813
Are there any relatives of yours who can lighten the situations a lil bit?
arjun0813
or someone who you can trust and approach about this
justlikeme1
actually i dont like taking abt this to anyone.. i feel if i tell about such conflicts .. they will look down upon us ..
arjun0813
you wanna chat with me on personal account?
arjun0813
any relative that you are close to or loves needs to know this...he or she won't look down upon you and your fam I swear but you need to let it out somewhere who can make parents understand
justlikeme1
i m a good person to the outside world.. always been topper in studies.. good at job .. good looking.. single child .. thats why people envy me .. but no one really knows how unlucky i m.. facing miserable conflicts of my parents always ..
justlikeme1
how do i chat in personal account
arjun0813
there are things I wanna say to you but this is not the right time...but this situation needs time and prayers and I'm sure you will get out of it because almighty has given you this situation... he'll provide you with the strength and the solution