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how to realise if there is a continuous feeling that I am moving towards destruction even though I have job and other middle class family needs... but I am accepting new job and I cannot return to this current job once I leave next week..... i am thinking should I take my resignation back as mentally still I haven't disconnected myself from current company... feeling very stuck and getting anxious

farshy756 · Answer

hi

cynicalthrush8 · Answer

hi @farshy756

farshy756 · Answer

congratulations on getting a new job

cynicalthrush8 · Answer

but I am very much confused and scared whether I ever wanted to change my job...as I guess I changed it more due to my colleagues perspective of me that I can learn the new technology... but now I am thinking that I don't hate or even don't dislike my current job in current company...so is switching needed or I take switch because others were switching...I am scared if I am not able to perform better

cynicalthrush8 · Answer

then they will fire me.. while the current company never fires even if we don't perform well or do nothing

farshy756 · Answer

are you happy with the pay?

cynicalthrush8 · Answer

to be honest, I can even work on low to lowest pay for the work which doesn't give stress to mind and need very little hardwork...so currentl company is ready to retain , not at equal pay, but little lesser ... even after this I don't know why hesitated to ask more things for retention as I actually don't want anything ⁶

farshy756 · Answer

what about future expenses? will you be able to live a comfortable life with this pay in the future?

cynicalthrush8 · Answer

hi @farshy756, not sure about comfortable life, but I guess I can live average/normal life with it and too without stress..but I am not able to imagine myself where do I stand after few years.. moreover other colleagues who switched are talented and they can again join any MNC later but I will not be able to join any MNC again

crybaby0804 · Answer

hey.. i know you said u are okay with lower wage but less stress.. yeah it's important to take care our mental health. But I think you can do it to grow yourself. Don't be afraid. Trust yourself also and I also believe you can do it! the new company won't hire you if you are not capable.. Hiring you means they trust your capability to do your job.

cynicalthrush8 · Answer

hi @crybaby0804...I know but now I don't feel the need of changing the current company...there is a sense of job security and even we perform average..we can directly retire from here... but now I don't know what will happen after joining new company

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