feeling hurt because of ex being in a relationship and herself having the same feelings even after break up

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feeling hurt because of ex being in a relationship and herself having the same feelings even after break up

There's someone I really love, and we had told each other before but decided not to do anything as we were kinda young. Then, I left our school, and we lost touch... I still love him, so I texted him and told him how I feel. Then, he said that he would go out with me but is with someone else right now and that he's sorry. My other friend was actually one who had told me to confess, and after hearing what my crush said, I said that it was a dare. And I think he believed it... He's happy, but I've just been crying for so long it hurts bad! What do I do? I still love him..!

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2 Answers
ecstaticCurlew9
I can ubderstand how it must feel horrible to experience something like that but now that he is with someone else, I think you should step back since you'll then be starting your relationship with a lie. If he really is meant to be with you, destiny will find a way. Until then, you should focus on yourself & on moving on because there might be someone waiting for you to dedicate himself & be with you truly, in every way. All the best. I hope things get better.
Zoya Ahmad
Hey! Thanks for reaching out. I can understand it must be hurtful for you to know, but we cannot expect everyone to feel the way we feel. He has moved on in his life you should also try to do the same, try to accept it that it’s okay, whatever time you people has was good and you can be friends with each other. This will take time, don’t rush to come out of it, rather give yourself time to accept it in a positive perspective.
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