i'll listen to all your problems u can taalk to me

these are my problems

you can tell them that half salary you will give them and rest you will keep.let them discuss ur life with others no harm in that but when it comes to taking decision aat that point in life then u take

they wont say me what decision they are going to take ,either i like it or not i have to accept it and even if i say that' i will give half salary' they are saying there are financial problem so you have help us out.

Hey Kiru! Thanks for reaching out. That’s so nice of you to actually acknowledge the need of your family and help them, they all should be grateful of you. But them not being gently and considerate towards you must be hurtful. I can understand. I think you should try to talk to them once about the way you have been feeling, the decisions that you want to take for your life and how you want things to be, tell them that you also wants independence, you are not turning your back away from the responsibilities, but you are an individual too and your needs are also to be addressed. You have been feeling soo negative about the situation it is going to affect your work life as well. Talk about this.