Hey! Thanks for reaching out. Have you tried talking about your feelings with your partner? Are you sure there is no communication gaps between you guys? It’s better to clear things out. And try to distract yourself with other things. If you feel your studies are getting affected, put your mind into more because that comes in your priority list. What are the areas that are getting effected due to this relationship issue? 6 months is a long time to be in such a situation. How have you been dealing with stuff all this long?

and told that he will tell about me to his wife

sorry i messaged here wrongly

Yea, I’ve talked to her about this. And she’s not interested much into a relationship. She was recently out of a relationship back then. So she wasn’t interested. So we remained friends. But I couldn’t be so I informed her about this. And she just asked me get out of her life because she wasn’t ready for all of this. So I don’t want to force her Any more. She still thinks me as her good friend. But then these incidents all make me feel like I’m not enough or is there any mistake on my side for her not to like me. Doubts on myself arises which is making it terrible for me to move forward. Now the worst part she still is in love with her old partner. Even though it’s got nothing to do with me I feel horrible inside like will I ever be enough for her or any other person. And I’ve tried diverting myself by putting more efforts into my studies. I’ve reduced talking to her much as I do before. But still sometimes these random thoughts of being rejected by some person and not being enough pulls me down. I read books to keep myself away from all the negatives so far. I’m coping better than the past months though.

We need to accept that we cannot make the other person feel the same way we feel about them. It’s okay, it’s very natural to feel this way, because you’re attached to her. You are enough. Don’t rely on someone else for your worth. That’s great! If you’re coping well. Try to write down your negative thoughts. Then we can try to dispute them. For now try to accept the feeling.

Okay