Hey! yes its true that we humans are extremely social and need someone to talk to and be affectionate with. I would also feel low if I was in your place but know this that we are born alone and we'll leave this world alone too. the way you can be there for yourself.. no one else can be. spend time with yourself you are more than an empty girl. Fill yourself up. only you can do this. do courses online that make you happy. Watch movies alone..spend time with yourself and you'll realize its actually beautiful than desperately waiting for someone to come by. You will find friends who are meant for you! and who will love you

Emptygirl, you are in a lot of pain. I'm sorry. Loneliness can be very crippling. You mention that nobody makes you a priority.it seems like it's very important to you. Could you elaborate a bit on that? What do you mean when you say priority?

By priority means someone who wants to talk to me as much as i want. Someone in whose life i am special like nobody can take my place ever.

Sometimes fewer friends is better. Don't get influenced by people who look like they have many friends. I have only one friend, who is also my gf. Let us know if there is something bothering you.

There seems to be an urgent need to be THE ONE for someone. If I may ask, how do you feel about yourself? In other words, simply put, do you like yourself?

Yes i like myself. I know i am a good person and if someone loves me with their heart i can do anything for them. But i don't know why nobody wants me

So many a times our own idea about what constitutes a healthy relationship may hold us back from having deep connections with people. For instance this idea that there should be this one person who is understands us completely and should always be there may be holding you back. Realistically, relationships require a great deal of communication and accepting the other person. Itay help to consider these questions How does someone I care about show affection? Is it the same as how I do or want? You will find that often other people are very different in how they express love and affection. Aften this difference is hard for us to understand. As a result we may think others don't care for us. I would suggest you read a bit on the 5 love languages. They may help you understand better how to read other people's love language and understand your own.