Feeling of not being understood

Question

I always listened to people problems I am ready to help when they are in so much pain being an introvert is not easy to socialize but whenever my friends my boyfriend they feel something wrong I am always being there but when it's my turn😀 none of them will listen also they will just move to another topic I am also human being I also feel hurt sad nowadays  I never shows my  emotions to  them because it's just useless when it's going to be my turn to be happy and have someone to be there for me???

hashbrown · Answer

Have you tried subtly telling them about how it makes you feel.

Kritiii · Answer

Yes I did but in the end it's all about argumnents only they said that ahh yes yes you are the only one who is standing in our good times na who told you do this or that blah blah blah🤣 and at last I have to say sorry with tears in my eyes and pain in my heart why?? Because in need them in my life 😀

Kritiii · Answer

Bad times*

mereIguana2 · Answer

I faced this too....Same Happened with me.... People tell their own thoughts and when you try to tell them they pretend that What is his/her problem Why are you telling us but same people discuss and tell their own problems to us....U can tell me whatever is in your Heart I can not be at all the time but I will be there in your bad time Kritiii

Kritiii · Answer

This made me smile😭😭😭❤️❤️❤️ Thank you so much i will be there too in your bad times don't worry I'll listen to you I'm grateful Thank you for understanding

mereIguana2 · Answer

Just message me on the_hippie_guy9 will try to be there🤗❤️

Frustrating

help me please

how do I change for the better?