hey.. sorry to hear all that.. i completely say uh that u please start to value yourself.. dont worry.. people usually don't like the one who is better than them.. please be a bit selfish .. love and take care about yourself.. Don't worry about your husband and in laws. dont really care about them.. make them feel they can't hurt uh.. be strong !!

thnk u .....i try to b strong...but when some1 say somthing to me i try to give tht person a rply but i cant people take advantage of and underestimate me

I completely understand that... so start speaking for yourself! prioritise yourself first ! all the best.. be happy.. don't be sad for long time.. enjoy your days..

it takes time , give relationships time..

@iam light..how much time its been 5 years of marriage...in ths time i was also cheated by him but still i forgave him nd forgt evrything just to save my marriage beoz i hv a child also

You Should Close Your Eyes And Ask Yourself This, Who's Life and Family It Is ? its Yours.. Who's Child & Husband It Is ? Its Your.. Leaving is No Option, This is Your Fight.. and Winners Dont Quit, Husband Agar Raste se Bhatak Jaye Toh Rastey Pe Lao, In Laws Value Nahi Karre Toh Unse Itna Acha Behave Karo K Wo Sharamsaar Ho Jaye Khud k Behavior K Liye, Always remember One Thing and this i Tell You By Experience.. Sab Insaan k Andar ek Mirror hota hai, wo unko unki asliyat dikhata hai, jab insaan apne aap ko us mirror me dekhta hai tab usse ehsaan hota hai wo kitna galat hai.. u have been fighting for 5 years now, wouldnt it be a waste to leave now.. just imagine if you win, you will have ur husband back , loving you more and realizing your true value, you in laws will tell about you as an Example , they will take pride in having you.. your child will learn and admire your efforts..plus u r Indian Women.. Biwi No 1 Dekhi Nahi kya.. plan it out, work it out..

@iamlight i think u r right..i will do ths....bs mjh ek chij sikhni h..k jb koi mjh kch bolta h to m use rply ni de pati mjh dr lgne lgta h k agr mne use rply diya to vo mjhse ldega or main prblm ye tht i hate shouting..jb koi shout krta h to m kch bol hi ni pati...or mere in laws expert h shouting krne m and they knw it isly vo mjh dbate h...mere husbnd b apne parents se drte h to vo isly mere liy stand ni lete...me kese apne liy stand lu kese m samne vale se khu k ni mjh ye kam ni krna mtlb ni krna...plz bs ye sikha de koi mjh

see no matter how old a boy gets, he is always afraid of his parents.. its very normal, what matters is that u must be good and nice to all in this chaotic situation.. it is absolutely not necesarry to win talks, if know u r right that is enough.. weak peoples shout and use foul langauge to prove thier point.. u r strong one because u have been through all that and still havnt lost control on urself.. u should simply stop worrying and focus more on child.. dnt let all this ruin his state of mind

ys u right....i can see clearly tht whn i get disturb becoz of thm i cnt concntrate on my husbnd n child....