start doing job

am working presently altho earning little,but out my little if I try to give my parents they don't take,they don't seems to understand I have a child to Carter for,no matter how little I give to them they don't appreciate,even they don't like my brothers or sisters respecting me or giving me money

most times am confused if am there biological child I swears Bec they shower so much love and prayers on my younger ones but when it comes to me it's curses I do get,they see me amount to nothing they don't value my presence,everyone in my community knows my story this is heart taking I feel depressed

if u earn. then separate from your family. why to listen when you are not dependent on anyone

am earning little for now,I am still hoping to get something better bigger than this,so I can Carter for my child.i am the first born,one thing I don't understand is why always insult me in presence of my kid brothers wife telling her my secret how I got kicked out of my husband house,how broke I am and how she's taking care of me and my child,and how useless I can.this are things that shocked me,why all this???? even calling my child a fatherless

you can't change peoples, you can only change yourself work on yourself and try to do things to get out of this place. u cant question them why they do what they do. u can only work on your mind. i know its too tough. but sometimes we have to do things and ignore people's for our own peace.

its too hard. start reading books try to learn some new skill's and work on your child also. this all also affect child mind badly. atleast for your child start to do something. dont blame dont fight bcos reality is u r dependent on them with your child. only option is earning. earning comes from skills or try to make connection to get some work

why insult me in my younger brother wife presence all the time,are they doing it to protect their son home??? is it a normal thing? have never ever seen such a thing before even in my ex husband house despite how poor the sisters are,I never knew anything about them or their home,not until I got closer to knowing that myself.why disgrace me to my younger brother wife

my parents kept using my divorce to mock me often,my mum made me loss my marriage she planted an image in me that my husband family are evil and I should prevent myself from them,she comes to my home and tell my husband all sort of negative things,how ugly I am,how fat I am,how my kid sister is Soo pretty and all that,and that's how I loss my marriage,now my younger brother has his wife she's praying that what happened to me should not happen to her son and that she can never let her grand child be raised by another family.

is it your real parents?

yes they say,but am confused,do u know my mom hardly help in in financial crises,if she wants to give me a penny the whole community will hear about it,but if it comes to my younger ones is gives them d minutes they ask,she's ready to assist and protect them.when I lost my marriage I don't know where to start my life,I cried and begged them for assistance but they could not render me I was jobless and I had to ask her to beg a relative of hers to give me a job then I was giving,it's out of that job I cloth my self feed my dad pays her school fees buy her books,she know am struggling and I am trying my best ,another thing is if I ask my younger ones for assistance she doesn't allow them render it to me,althou they do it hidden ....this woman never helps me despite she had alot of money,I cried to her that where am working is bringing shame to me because it belongs to a relative and she should help me money for business,she did not answer me and not ready to help and she's always laying curses on me each time I ask her for money,she never bless me but curses me alway

hey, it's difficult situation but why can't u try to repair ur relationship with ur husband. it's the best remedy possible. if u wanna talk u can connect with me on telegram @krishnafriends