feeling unfulfilled in relationship
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In my relationship of 8 n half year all things r good what I feel sometimes is unloved just because I have wishes that he should give me roses or kisses on my forehead hug me in a way I feel loved starting 4 years was ling distance now from last 3 years we r in same city we usually mets but in room because most of our relatives lives here n knows both of us. Cause we r from same village so still because I m not comfortable with the physical relationship he is ok no worry n rest thing I m. Ok with when we spend time in rum now due to corona we cant meet properly but we talk daily see we used to talk about physical that what would we do he takes so much of interest in that bt in rest thing I don't feel like s he is interested just I feel a formality I m a type of girl who just want little things he cares me a lot but I want more he never gave me a rose not a card or a cute little gift ..I want this n he knows very well that I want these I sometimes hints him about that but I dk why he's not trying I want. To go outside we now started going outside sometime but when I tell him that I want to go he nevers plans things like this I want he should video call me but no only when I ask him to do when I say him that why u don't do this he says that he never denies me so jab tumahra man ho tb krlo call m mna ni kruga but what kind of thing is that I want ki kbi uska bi man ho ki video call kre bo bole ki mera man h tumhe dekhne ka bt kbhi nhi n in time of asking for nudes he's all ready for that see he's so caring .. Knows my mood swings all thing but abhi bo ghr pr h m hostel m call pr baat nhi h opati bt at least he can try m hi bolu ek bar mene bola bs tb hi krke reh gya bs muje ye sb nhi chahie na muje physical hone m dikkat nhi h if he wants it thn phr meri wishes ke bare m kb sochega I nhi chahti ki m usse bolu ki do this for me see what happened ek rose ka 3 saal se wait kr rhi hu .. Mene bola usse ek din ki me 4 5 saal se ek card ka wait kr rhi hu to bola ki bola kyu nhi bese mere man m kbhi aata to deta to yar ye chize to common sense h mene usko rose dia last valentine pr cards bnati hu uske lie itna sb likh kr express kia usne kbhi nhi kia formal I love u nhi chahie Muje .. Bo bhut jada Acha h sb chiz m bt in chizo ko kese samjhau use mera kbhi bi ohr mood kharab ho jata h jb ye chize yaad aati h that he's is ok if I say that lets get physical m bring me this flavour of condom he seriously khi se bi le aaega bt I would ask him for a rose usse nhi hota kya last valentine or hm rose day pr mile the use pta tha m use rose dene vali thi bo bi la skta tha na bt nai laya muje acha ni lga kese samjhau use ...use pta sb h ki mien kya psnd h bt ohr bi ghumne ka plan jb jb hua bs meri jid thi islie m usse bolti hu to bolta h ki tum bolt deti hu to koi prob thodi h. Mene mna kb kia tumse... Ye sb baate h ab m kya kru that's why I feel unloved sometimes

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