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hmari age 23 hai .... hm ek relationship me the pichle 4 saal se .. hmesha ldai ho jati thi breakup ho jata tha fir hm jakr usse thik krte hmesha hm hi sorry bolte apna rista bachate the .... vo pyaar krta tha but egoatic tha .. fir aise hi hmari ldai hui ar hm dono alg ho gye ... ek month ho gya tha ... fir hm apne ek school ke dost se milne gye aur uske dost se v mile .. uska dost hmko like krne lga ... fir hmari baat v hui phone par usko pyaar ho gya hmne apne baare me sab bta diya usko fir vo bola ki hme tumhare past se mtlb nii h ... hme achha to lgta tha usse baat krna lkin khush nii the hm .. hmko mere pyaar ki hmesha yaad aati thi ..... fir vo hmko samjhata tha ki life me aage badho .. apne sath aane ko bolta tha ... hmesha hsate rhta tha lkin hm phle ki tarah nii the.. hm hmesha se apne phle pyaar ko hi sochte the aur ussi ke sath rahna chahte the... fir ek din bhai ka dost hmko bina btaye hmse milne aa gya mere city me ... fir meri roommate ko call krke hm dono ko bulaya milne ke liye ... hm log mile v mere liye ekdm surprise tha ... ab hm thoda bht bhai ke dost k baare me sochne lge fir v utna nii .. ab hm pure din sochne me busy ho gye lgta tha agr iske sath relation me jayenge to khush rhenge lkin utna sure v nii the .. fir ek din mere phle pyaar ka birthday tha hm ar meri roommate nikl gye usse milne ke liye bina kch soche smjhe ... hm gye uske paas fir birthday celebrate kiya aur fir ek dusre se mil gye hm usne bht sorry bola ar hm maan gye ... fir hmne apne bhai k dost ke baare me usse bta diya vo uss time par kch nii bola lkin kch din baad ldai hui hmari to vo usko hmse jod jod kar bura bolne lga mere baare me .. fir hm usse gussa ho gye ar fir breakup ... fir bhai ka dost smjhaya hmko aur bola ki ab tum kabhi uske pas nii jaogi mere sath rho ab .... hm v gusse me the ar maan gye uski baat lkin hm usko baar baar ye khte the ki tum mere dost bankar hi rho par vo boyfriend bnna chahta tha ... fir hmari baaten hone lgi ar hm dono relationship me aa gye ... fir v hm khush nii the hmesha apne phle pyaar ko sochte rhte the . fir ek din hmne apne phle pyaar ko call kiya bht roye ar btaya ki bht pyaar krte h but usne block kr diya hmko .. fir hm apne dost jiske sath ab relationship me the usse btaya hmne ki call kiya tha vo gussa gya ar bola baat mat kro hmse fir hmne sorry bola ar fir sath me rhne lge lkin hmko sochne ki bimari ho gyi thi hm kvi v apne phle pyaar se dur hi nii ho paye the .. aur jiske sath ab the relationship me uske sath bass khne ke liye the mere mann me iske liye kch tha hi nii .. hm hmesha se apne phle pyaar ko sochte the ... fir ek din mere phle pyaar ka call aya tha lkin hmne blacklist me rakha tha usko.. mera bht mann tha usse baat krne ka lkin jiske sath ab the relation me usne mna kr diya so hmne call back nii kiya .... fir bht din nikl gya hmko kch achha nii lgta tha hmne sab bta v diya tha bhai ke dost ko ki hmare mann me tumhare liye koi aisa feelings nii h vo bolta tha ki ho jayega..... but hm uski respect bht jyada krte the .... vo bht emotionally blackmail krke mere sath relation me raha .. aur ek din hmne usse finally bol diya ki hm khush nii rah pate tumse jud kar hm hmesha se usko hi pyaar krte the aur abhi v krte h hm ja rhe h aur kvi nahi ayenge .. fir hmne sab khatam kar diya vo v bola ki vo mera wait krega hm jab chahenge uske pass ja skte h vo hmko hmesha pyaar krega fir hm log alg alg ho gye.. ldbhag 2 months k baad meri ek dost se baat hui to pata chala ki vo jo mere bhai ka dost tha vo ab usske sath hai starting me mere baare me usse puchta tha aur fir usi ke sath relation me hai ... hmne v apni friend ko btaya ki mere sath v isne yhi sab bola hai .. fir meri friend usse ldai krne lgi ki jhuth kyu bola ..... ... vo jo mere bhai ka dost tha vo hmpar gussane lga aur mko blackmail krne lga meri photo jo uske pas thi usse ...... fir hmne usse sorry bola aur btaya ki hme lga tha tm sirf hmse pyaar krte ho .... vo fir se bolne lga ki haa hm tumse hi pyaar krte hai .. tumhari friend ke sath aise hi jude the ... aur bolne lga ki tum raho mere sath hm kahi nii jayenge ... lkin hmko ab usse bht jyada darr lgne lga tha ki ye mko blackmail krta h ar pta nii kya kya krega ... fir hm aur v jyada sochne lge .. uthte sote har time yahi sab sochte jaise mera koi hai hi nii .. ghar wale bhi alg se force krte h job ke liye .. .... aur bhai ka dost hm dono se khne lga ki pyaar krte hai aur usko lgta tha ki hm dono friends me ldai hui h so vo meri glti meri friend se khta tha aur uski glti hmse khta tha .. fir abhi 2 din phle hi usne meri friend ne usse bola ki vo kvi baat nii kregi aur ye usse bht sorry bola ar apne sath rhne ko bola aur hmse v sorry bolkar apne sath rhne ko bola .. vo hm dono ko cheat krta h ar ye hm dono jante h bt vo nikl chuki h uske jaal se hm nii nikl paa rhe mko darr h ki agr hm isko chhod diye to ye fir mko blackmail krega .. abhi 1 day phle hi usne meri photo wali baat apni ek friend se btaya tha so vo hmse puch rhi thi hmne usko mna kar diya .. hmko bht darr lgta h isse.. hm fir se jabrjastii ke riste me to hai lkin khush nii h na aur pura time sochne me nikal jata hai ki hmne kitni badi glti kar di h .. ar apne phle pyaar ko soch soch kar rote rhte hai .ki kaash uss din baat kr liye hote .. hmesha uski yaad aati h .. aur isse darr lgta hai .. bht pareshan rhte hai πŸ˜”πŸ˜”

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