True! I feel it was strange oly in my case I can see it has happened for so many out there. I'm facing with the same problem finally I end up feeling low and lost and eventually losing interest. Now I'm not able to hold on rather able to leave. So confused and so low

Hello doremon, The feeling you have is nothing new in a relationship. It happens with everything. When you buy a new gadget, you are excited to use it, you take a good care of it but after sometime it becomes a usual thing and does not require any special attention. Same thing happens with relationships as well. But here you have the opportunity to change your habits. Do something new. Talk it out with other person, try to understand him. Just making few changes can bring out a lot of impact.

Hey. I understand it must be hard to go through something like this after two years of commitment. It seems to me that there is a communication gap between the two of you so you may want to try and tell your partner exactly how you feel. These conversations are never easy to have and they might even get defensive, but it is important to let them know how their behavior is affecting you. Take care :)

Hi.. I'm the guy in this same situation. 2 years relationship, last few months were hard due to family issues, she helped throughout the issue but I took her for granted after that a little bit, she lost interest, stopped talking with me, wants to break things up. But I'm in so much love with her and I realised my mistakes, I'm sure we can talk this through but she is not ready to even talk. How do I convince her that I still love her the most in this world.

We tend to bring our best selves forward in the beginning of a relationship. Conflicts are bound to arise as time passes and we get to know the person more. Maintaining good relationships requires effort and understanding. It is not something that will "just happen with the right person". When you say you have been trying to take his anger, what do you mean? If you feel there are issues you would like to discuss, what holds you back from bringing them up at a later time?

@861VCJK To feel cheished and valued in a relationship very important for it to thrive. Both partners need to feel valued. Doing so is something that takes careful attention and conscious effort. With that said, if she is not willing to speak to you,it may be hard to make any efforts towards that. You may want to consider writing to her, if she is not willing to see you. Understanding her love language may help. Here is a link that talks about them https://www.focusonthefamily.com/marriage/understanding-the-five-love-languages/ Trying to connect to her in a way that she values is important. So, try and identify her love language and come up with ways to show how much she means to you.

Yes, this experience must be eating you up from.inside, however for any relationship communication is key. You must talk to your partner. Tell him how you feel. It is important in a healthy partnership for each of you to value the other person and never take anyone for granted. This will take effort and if both of you are in love, I'm sure you'll make that effort to stay in love! Yes, it's always an effort. Love happens at first but survives because we nurture it, it's no magic, nothing is 'meant to be' (not even love) without our hard work to maintain it!