It was not about parents allowing me. Now I feel guilty that I wasted a lot of time based on time anxiety.
Thanks for helping me. Sometimes this validation from others definitely helps me reduce the guilt knowing that someone else agrees too. I hope I can become someone that does it without validation someday. My mind is aware but still I couldnt align with my thoughts. Thanks for taking time.
I get it. 🙌
Not necessarily. Relationship should be a place where you share happiness and affection. You can't have your partner as your therapist. You should be stable enough to handle each other. Sometimes the other one will also need the care they offer. But by that time, you will be comfortable to be on the receiving end.
Feeling loved by others often comes from the longing for care, comparison of other people, movies and your idea of love. But it is not the exact essence of life. You should be able to keep yourself happy before offering it someone and receiving it from someone.