Guilt of being rude to someone and feeling of loneliness and anxiety

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Guilt of being rude to someone and feeling of loneliness and anxiety

Hi i am dating a girl since last 2 years, and she helped me get through my worst time with her moral support.Recently she lost her job due to covid and she did not tell me anything about it, I got anxious and I tried asking her the problem and she ghosted me.During this process i told her certain things which I could not have told and blocked her on my mobile.But later I realized my mistake after 2 days and got in touch with her, she is acting all weird and nothing seems to be as it was before.She told me she does not have feeling for me anymore, and when i asked her if should I go away or can't we make it right, she told me that she never asked me to go away.I am getting these guilt trips that I can not help her when she needed the most, and she was there for me when I needed moral support.I am feeling very anxious what should i do Please advise.

Saurabhthakur

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Samairah
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Saurabh you should stick with her regardless of what she says. It’s just that she going through a tough phase and you need to ensure that your there for her. Talk it out with her. I am sure it will work out😊. Keep me updated on how it gore
goofyChile8
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Do you think she has made her mind? Have you apologised? I think you should give this thing some time and don’t push yourself in her life. Other than this what has been stressing you out?
Saurabhthakur
@samairah thanks, i will surely keep you posted. I am being by her side, not talking about what happened right now as she is still struggling with her job, helping her out in her job hunt. My worst nightmare is to loose her as we are living apart dur to this covid situation and wfh. Although I went to her house the last as I got the chance and sat with her, apologised to her.
Samairah
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Saurabh that’s very sweet of you. Also, take her favourite cuisine next time and surprise her, it usually helps
Saurabhthakur
Yes, yesterday i sent her fav chocolates and Icecreams, but she does not seem excited, maybe once her job gets sorted she will be have a clearer mind.
Saurabhthakur
@Samairah she went to her friends place to talk and there also she said she is not getting the feeling to be in a relationship. What should i do
Samairah
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Well stick on and at the same time give her some space. You have to understand she ain’t in a good place right now. See where it goes and be her pillar of support. Everything is going to be fine just be positive
Saurabhthakur
@Samairah how can I be her pillar of support if she is not asking for the help. Although we chat on regular stuff, but the connect whicj we used to have is lost.
Saurabhthakur
@samairah it did not work out. We parted our ways.

Anyone know any apps where I can vent privately

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