hate my thoughts

Question

i just hate my thoughts  please don't judge I'm not an bad child. my parents give me every thing raise me well and now when I'm earning i really want to do a lot for my perents but there is some kind of thought are disturbing me and I really don't like that i also want to do everything for my perents

wolfalpha · Answer

share your thoughts...let them out

Sr_raheja · Answer

start meditating...it might help to clear your thoughts

guiltystork0 · Answer

like i order some clothes for my father and he didn't like the color so he asked me if I can orderd some other colour and it's completely ok for me

guiltystork0 · Answer

but my thoughts were like I'm buying clothes for him and he didn't like it

guiltystork0 · Answer

i really hate it i want to give my everything to my parents i don't want this kind of bad thoughts and feelings

wolfalpha · Answer

understand this that your father is asking you to buy some other colour and that means he really wants to accept gifts from you...and he is showing his right to tell his child to buy something for him

wolfalpha · Answer

and it's a good thing...just imagine if your father didn't tell you about his choices and behind you he would say 'I didn't like that gift'...how would you feel?

guiltystork0 · Answer

i know that i just Coman thing even we are also like this

wolfalpha · Answer

infact sit with him show him different options and both of you select something that he likes or you both agree on...

guiltystork0 · Answer

but the only thing I thought

guiltystork0 · Answer

I'm very sensitive about about my parents and thinks thoughts makes me feel bad

Sr_raheja · Answer

ask him for his opinions before gifting him anything....or take a look at his choices...his fav color.....or something of that sort

wolfalpha · Answer

there's nothing to feel sad...they want gifts from you...it's just they like to choose for themselves and it's totally fine....you are the one paying money and that's all that matters....even if he sits around people,, he would always say 'my child bought me this'

guiltystork0 · Answer

they said I'm doing a job so i should save for my future and they don't want my money but I really want to help them to live a little good comfortable life

wolfalpha · Answer

They are also right and as parents as adults as experienced they would suggest you this....but you can be a bit dominating here that I wanna gift him this so I'll definitely gift him this but only of his choice

guiltystork0 · Answer

like yesterday i was ordering something and there is this thought like oh i have to give my money and i just hate this kind of thought

guiltystork0 · Answer

like i don't like this thought of money like I'm giving money and every thing it's not my money it's our money i want to be like this but thoughts are just makes be distributed and makes me feel bad

wolfalpha · Answer

Give your parents everything without any hesitation and God will give you more....people respect those who prioritize their parents...do remember that

guiltystork0 · Answer

i also put my parents first and i want to fullfill there every wishes. as much as i can

guiltystork0 · Answer

because I know how much they have done for me and my brother

guiltystork0 · Answer

just help me in one thing how to deal with those thoughts

guiltystork0 · Answer

and does this make me bad child

wolfalpha · Answer

You are not a bad child...stop thinking about anything else when it comes to parents...even if your bank account goes zero...

guiltystork0 · Answer

yeah thanks for understanding

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