have romantic feelings towards best friend, unable to get over with him as he is now getting close to someone else

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have romantic feelings towards best friend, unable to get over with him as he is now getting close to someone else

I have a malebestie ...i love him so much ,always my mind will be running with his thoughts i became mad abt him.Now a days he is getting close to one of my frnds tht hurts me a lot. yesterday i told him that how im feeling and it endedup with a big fight....in the process of going back of him . I lost myself and now im hating me .He always tella that im his first priority and im the onlyone he sharea his all things ...but he doesnt value my emotions ,now he is telling i wil make u feel more by talking ur frnd and all things..i want to get over him .I dnt want to think abt him.

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M_KSA
First thing you should do is stop talking to him and distract yourself . Second, get yourself busy with your hobbies and if possible do a bit of online shopping I did that when I was feeling low 😊. Don’t hate yourself as you did nothing wrong here as being honest in this world is not rewarded the same way. Stay the same and be happy 😃
Zoya Ahmad
Hey! Thanks for reaching out. I can understand, you must be feel disheartened. I think you should take a break from him because he is purposely hurting your feelings by being rude. He could have politely said no to your proposals. Try to keep yourself busy and distracted. What is your daily routine?
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Having feelings for someone we are close to is normal so firstly know that is common to have these feelings. having said that u should take a break from this person if you really were his priority he would value you better instead of treating this whole situation as a game. please know that your important and try focusing more on you now.

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