agar pyar h to jayega Kahan? ... or agar chala gaya to tha hi nhi kabhi (-_-)
deep_thinker
may be you're in a toxic relationship
suku
nhii it's true meaning of love
suku
give them all the freedom they want
suku
and if they are okay with everything they will love you back 💕
want2liv
how can u say it's a toxic relationship?
want2liv
yes will surely try to let them b as they want.
suku
as you said as hard as I hold i hurt myself.. so I am saying give space and let him try to figure it out the thing that you are getting hurt Because of his misunderstanding or misjudge behaviour.
deep_thinker
that's y you're getting hurt by holding him
want2liv
I'm unable to hold things up. i just say what hurts me bt him not understanding hurts more. don't know how to ignore this
want2liv
even if I want to end he don't want to loose the relationship
deep_thinker
idk more abt ur relationship bt it hard to understand a toxic relationship.
want2liv
it's hard to understand for me too now as things r getting messed up even if I try my best. 1-2 days things r gud after that again the same.
deep_thinker
can i ask you some questions?
want2liv
yes
deep_thinker
Does he ever tried to restrict your interactions with others?
want2liv
yes
deep_thinker
Does he restrict you from doing things Independently?
want2liv
no. supports me alot in my own small business
deep_thinker
does he allow you to go out alone or without his permission?
deep_thinker
After this relationship, your friends circle became smaller?
want2liv
yes I'm almost out alone. i don't ask for going,just tell him as he knew my work
want2liv
my friend circle was always small bt he never restricts me to meet or talk to any of my friends
deep_thinker
does he doubt you?
want2liv
he doesn't say it directly bt i feel he does a bit
deep_thinker
Then I think yours is not a toxic relationship.Can you tell me what the real problem is between?
deep_thinker
Have you ever openly asked him if he has any doubts?
want2liv
he is just a lot of busy we talk at day for 5-10 mins nd at night either he is late so hung up after 5-10 mins or we get into a fight. i have not met him since a month. when things get worse I want him to listen to me bt he is all taken up.
want2liv
i have already asked him that does he have doubts on me bt he always said that he trust me more than himself.
