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In the beginning of my relationship , my boyfriend used to describe other girls beauty because I am dusky  , I used to did this for many time , I cannot tolerate for many days so I argued with him , he said he did that just for possessiveness, but I can't feel that in his word , he normally used to describe girls , from that day onwards some inferiority complex I have on me , because I am not beautiful , he also used to show anger on me , when I cry he won't response to me , but still he telling that he wants me , without me he cannot live , what can I do now ? but now is telling, I don't want anything other than you , I just need your love and he is feeling sorry for that 😔

peaky04 · Answer

heyy

peaky04 · Answer

harsh advice but from my personal experience, dump him

Mysterio · Answer

can I ask your Age...!?!

offendeddoves8 · Answer

22

peaky04 · Answer

dump him and choose your peace of mind .

offendeddoves8 · Answer

I have been with him from past 3 yrs , I can't able to leave but also I'm struggling from depression etc...I can't concentrate on my studies, everyone around me knows that I'm in relationship with him

peaky04 · Answer

so what everyone knows, what do you want that matters !

peaky04 · Answer

see you are agreeing this things like depression, less concentration so what's the cause behind this? have you ever thought about this?

offendeddoves8 · Answer

I ignored many friends and important person in my life for him ! now they used to laugh at me

peaky04 · Answer

see ppl have only one job to do in this world, that's criticism and laughing at us , just ignore those ugly faces and choose the thing which you want

peaky04 · Answer

leave the boy, girl he's toxic in nature and he's disturbing your life. you'll get many more good boys in future it's not like that he's the one you need in this life

offendeddoves8 · Answer

I feel guilty to choose another boy in my life

offendeddoves8 · Answer

there is no place for anyone else 😔 , what can I do if he commits suicide

peaky04 · Answer

why feel guilty about it? consider it as a experience

peaky04 · Answer

he'll not do anything, explain him why you want to break up with him and how's this phase been hard for you.

peaky04 · Answer

if he says like he'll commit suicide and all then it obviously shows that he never loved you, what is love ? its all about understanding the partner and be with them in any situation and not to make them sick of being in a relationship

offendeddoves8 · Answer

No way ! no more boys no more love

offendeddoves8 · Answer

just now I had argued with him, and talked bad about his family because of my temper , I am feeling sorry! but I can't control my emotions, he said he is gonna leave me

peaky04 · Answer

good , if he's saying leaving then let him leave and you too accept this thing and make changes in yourself

peaky04 · Answer

and mostly focus on yourself, focus on health, education, become independent earn good and live happily and after some years you'll find someone who deserves you.

offendeddoves8 · Answer

thankyou for all of u guys !

peaky04 · Answer

yeah always welcome 😁

peaky04 · Answer

text here if you need anything , bye 👋

Mysterio · Answer

really agreed with peaky04...At first a wound gives us massive  pain cause they are our part of body, Like a Wound leaves a scar it's become like that a learning...but it will take some time just let it go ,even you also know that he not good...Just trick your mind and spend time seperating from yourself from him...I know it's hard but i believe you can ..we all are with You Sis..

Snowflake002 · Answer

girl u are beautiful and u should give priority to urself first and then others. for u your self respect and ur mental health should be important. just focus on urself and don't care about others and yes he won't commit suicide and even if he says then just inform this to ur family and try to calm your mind that's it.

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