help me stop being so lazy

Question

I'm afraid to find a job and this cause me to procrastinate from trying to find a job, my peers and friends is moving forward while I digress more as days goes by, and I don't want to talk to anyone about this because it will look so ridiculous, I'm a very privileged person that has never work a day in my life and it could be said my life is quite wonderful my family loves me, why can't I be grateful or happy with what I have. I don't have any job experience at all, I feel so useless right now and I don't know what I should do. How do I stop procrastinating and just find the motivation to just do something with my life for once.

someone_u_kw · Answer

hey buddy..been going through the same thing. At this point I don't have any hope but we don't want to be a looser who doesn't try. what's the worse that could happen..I know its not easy cuz I'm going through it but lets do our best so that we won't regret in future

YoucancallmeSnow · Answer

sorry for over sharing but I just feel so happy and relief that someone feels the same this is the first time in a long time I have vent because I'm to scared of people judging me for being the way i am once again I apologize if I seem like such an over dramatic kid sorry for over sharing dude also my anxiety is making me hesitate for like 10 minutes to send this reply (it's totally cool if you ignore this cause I just want to vent on some stranger) (I'm not expecting any reply) (I'm a mess really a literal one)

someone_u_kw · Answer

its totally fine bro, I had a mental breakdown yesterday n today I was determined to be lil bit stronger.  My situation is getting worse day by day ,I don't see it getting better anytime soon. I have posted some things here at my weakest cuz I have the same fear as u..I don't want to be judged. we gotta come out of this. we deserve to be happy, let's work for it

YoucancallmeSnow · Answer

thanks I hope I can be stronger too and I also wish I could help you with your situation. I know everyone deserve to be happy but sometimes it's hard to actually think I deserved it at all but I will try to make it work

someone_u_kw · Answer

lets look out for each other n do let me know if you have any trouble or something amazing happening to u:)

YoucancallmeSnow · Answer

yeah let me know too if you have any trouble I will do my best to help :D

someone_u_kw · Answer

sure..I saved this thread✌

YoucancallmeSnow · Answer

that's great if u don't mind me being an awkward human being then 😅

someone_u_kw · Answer

no probs at all..

YoucancallmeSnow · Answer

wait, does this count as being pen pall?

YoucancallmeSnow · Answer

my grammars are atrocious

YoucancallmeSnow · Answer

sorry if you want to back out now I will understand don't feel pressured by me

someone_u_kw · Answer

pen pal? how does this work ..like writing letters , that's what I've found on google😅

someone_u_kw · Answer

English isn't my first language either n urs seem jst fine.

YoucancallmeSnow · Answer

do you want to exchanges email? only if you want to of course

YoucancallmeSnow · Answer

no pressure

someone_u_kw · Answer

yeah sure send me urs l'll msg u

someone_u_kw · Answer

hey got it ...

YoucancallmeSnow · Answer

👌

YoucancallmeSnow · Answer

did you write it down? or did I just deleted the comment too fast?

someone_u_kw · Answer

i jst sent u mail..I screenshot it

YoucancallmeSnow · Answer

I have received it

anyone up?

😕

I. love singing but there so many hurdles on. my part