Help please

Question

ok so there are these 2guys who like me and one has the ideal personality which I want in a guy he shows efforts and protectiveness but his looks aren't so good what ppl often search in a guy I wouldn't call him ugly nor very handsome. and the second looks okay he's good looking has alot of friends he's popular basically he also proposed me but he never shows his love nor any efforts when he didn't proposed me he used to text me everyday but now I rejected him I'm just friends with him he's like so so and never texts me at all even if he's active nor shows any affection idk what should I do but the  fact that I'm lowkey in love with the first guy and attracted with the other one I might sound like a hoe here but I'm just confused I've never dated a guy and looking for a relationship I want my first to be a successful and a healthy relationship HELP!!!

yourmomsboyfriend702 · Answer

i feel like you should take more time to think about it but still observe how they both treat you , if anyone of them doesn't show any interest in the next five days then they aren't for you

whymee · Answer

I've been talking with the 1st one for like 5months now and he treats me so real good way better than the second one.

yourmomsboyfriend702 · Answer

choose the first one , because he has showed  you that his intentions are pure 5 months is a long time

whymee · Answer

thankyou sm for your time and advice it means a lot

yourmomsboyfriend702 · Answer

it's a pleasure

numbnachos25 · Answer

Speaking for myself I don't know if I can like two people at the same time please don't take offense. But its no issue if you/ others do life is complex   , maybe you don't like anyone and need time for yourself.

whymee · Answer

bro I never said I liked the other one.

whymee · Answer

I left attractive cz he's popular lmao

whymee · Answer

felt*

whymee · Answer

don't get me wrong yall I never had any feeling for the other one 2nd

MaryJane · Answer

its very difficult I understand that because I struggle with similar issues but in my opinion the first guy who shows genuine affection would be my choice. At the end of the day there is no perfect person but once someone genuinely loves you they will treat you well despite their challenges. As for the other guy I wont feel the urge or desire to ensure you are okay because his heart is not there. That's just my opinion darling. I wish you all the best 😘😘

alertchile0 · Answer

choose anyone you want but this desire to make your first successful is a trouble thought. I understand, you might be having hopes but very few end up with their first one. I have seen a person who went through a lot just because of this thought process, even after seeing loads of red flag she chosed to stay and make it work. Just be careful

whymee · Answer

thankyou sm

I am suffering from ocd

i am an immature person so don't judge me i am mental patient

hello