there's one guy who loves me from last 7yrs and now he is again asking me but I'm not able to forget my last relationship and able to move on so what should I do
cruelCordial1
if you are comfortable with that guy then think about it
yogita07
im just waiting that he will come back and other side he is waiting i will say yes we were good friends and still we are but yes no doubt he is an perfect man but why I'm not able to move on what should I do should I give second chance to me to stay happy I'm just confused
innocentpup4
Listen to your heart, ask yourself will you stay happy with him if yes then give it a chance
thrilledshads3
you really need to be firm, then you shouldn't make small talk but should come right out and say it. Just say, "Leave me alone" or "Please leave me alone from now on." Though this won't be pleasant, the sooner you get the message across, the better.
Abraham
hey yogita
yogita07
im not totally moved on from him and I dnt want to hurt anyone or dnt want to make him feel bad again cz already last time I had hurted that guy but now I'm feeling that someone is there who is caring for me and I want some who is not even bothering me so what should I do should I wait that one day he will come back and realise or should I go which this guy who is waiting for me from such long time
thrilledshads3
then you have to decide yours life with whom
thrilledshads3
choose a right person! that you can your heart and mind knows who was the right person 😌 ✨️ 💕
thrilledshads3
you have to chose it bro
yogita07
I'm not able to decide anything like I'm just confused one time I feel to be moved on its just 2yrs long time I had took by waiting for him and the other side I'm feeling i should wait more for him
thrilledshads3
Potential partner with same interests Selecting someone who shares a lot of common interests with you will work in your favour.
yogita07
can person really wait for me for such long period of time like 7yrs
yogita07
somewhere the love and care I want I'm getting from him but now the thing is I'm not able to accept any kind of love from onyone rather than him my heart is just getting so worst and now I'm just getting into stress that wht I'm doing with myself I just dnt want to make myself feel regrets in future that's it
thrilledshads3
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Confusion is a symptom that makes you feel as if you can't think clearly. You might feel disoriented and have a hard time focusing or making decisions. Confusion is also referred to as disorientation. so what I'm saying is sit back take a deep breath and think definitely you got you answer
thrilledshads3
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I have an idea but do you have a patience to listen??
yogita07
yes plz tell
yogita07
I had done this I had gave some time to myself but all the time the only one name is being in my mind and the other boy I'm not sure about him bcz we belong to other caste so why if in future his family won't accept me or any issues occurs I dnt want again to be at that phrase from which I'm going through now
thrilledshads3
take a break of your over thinking
thrilledshads3
and move on outing
thrilledshads3
I mean a fullah of nature behind you and u should cover full and full of nature do the things whatever you like play with children's , ice creams , talk to family members whatever the thing you can swim 🏊♀️ listen a music but one day the full day you should go this whatever you like visit the hills hillstation just a single day after ur spending this day for you just go and sleep with the day memories and the morning just think about what you have worried about just have immediately got an answer
thrilledshads3
can you do this For you ?
yogita07
mate I had done this recently I had my trip to kedarnath where I got some hinds and answers to my questions
yogita07
last Friday I gone for trekking where I was just thinking about him the way all the time i think and half of the time i was enjoying myself doing trek and feeling the nature to close and it was so peace to just be close to nature and thinking about him
thrilledshads3
what's your hobbies or habits ??
thrilledshads3
So give it a try: Start with sitting, and focusing on your breath for five minutes. If your mind wanders, just observe that wandering, with a sense of curiosity, and pull it back to your focus. That part – the pulling the mind back, again and again – is really the heart of the practice.
yogita07
sure I will try this tomorrow and see wht happens
yogita07
some where I'm just unstable now to decide what's good for me and what's not
thrilledshads3
take an note and write ✍️ those what's good for you and what's not just write it but one condition just write don't think about it
thrilledshads3
you should try that breathing exercise atleast more than 13 days
thrilledshads3
watch more comedies and you have to make you laugh a lot and lot
thrilledshads3
you have to spend the time daily atleast two or one hour
yogita07
this will definitely helps me aloy i guess thanks dear for ur all time and ur this plan sure I'm gonna try this
thrilledshads3
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yes u should also you can my strong women 💪 friend
yogita07
yes I can do this and I have to do this for my self either soon i will go into an deep depression which is not good for me