I just don't know whattodo with myself... it's always them who come propose me ..Ive never proposed anyone and the thing is finally when I start dating and I'm too attached to that person... they'll end up breaking up with me ..my ex did the same thing but the the thing I'm not a person who likes to be sad mor depressed so after the breakup drama I thought of starting over and then finally my ex came to me this year and apologized a lot so I finally started talking to him again..and slowly I started gaining feelings for him again so I aksed him if he still liked me and the. He said yes then...but now after like 3 fricking months it turns out that he didn't wana make me feel bad and he lied abt his feelings this whole time and the best part is that he told me that he likes one of best friends and he's coming to e for advice...ugh idk I just!! How can he not like me when I'm so dedicated in this studf
troubledGarlic9
I wanted to cry so bad but I never did but then today when I got to know that he likes my one of friends ......I had a huuugge breakdown and I thought of not talking abt this to any of my friends coz it'll just make things worse for their and his relationship
troubledGarlic9
I just can't take all this anymore
troubledGarlic9
I tried hiding my feelings but I'm to done with all of it .....
troubledGarlic9
Pls help me out of this anyone...I srsly feel like dying
Samairah
Please don’t do that I would say the same thing to you. Be strong pls
troubledGarlic9
What else shud I do
troubledGarlic9
I can't keep struggling like this
troubledGarlic9
If I die then I won't have to worry about anything
Samairah
Well you still have a chance to turn your situation around as your alive and breathing.
troubledGarlic9
The thing is this guy who I'm talking about calls me everyday and vr pretty close but it just kills me to know that he likes her
Samairah
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Also, your life is much more than that relationship. Your a complete person :)
troubledGarlic9
I just wna get over him and start fresh with my mind..so that isee him as my friend too
troubledGarlic9
I don't know mahn😭😭
Zoya Ahmad
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Hey! Thanks for reaching out. I am sure you must be feeling devastated.
I can only imagine the pain you must be going through.
But trust me on this that dying is not a solution.
There is more to life.
Why do we run after people who don’t value us?
He never deserved you. It’s good that you are out of it.
Focus on yourself, prioritise yourself, never go back to the same space.
It will really difficult for you to cope up with it, but give yourself some time and try to accept it.
Believe that you deserve better.
More than a relationship, you value your worth.
You are not worth these shallow relationships.
You are one very strong woman.
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troubledGarlic9
Hi Zoya ma'am thanku so much...but the thing is after some time I'll start overthinking over and over again....and the problem with my mind is...it blocks everything that makes me feel happy all I can find is sorrow in every situation ....but I hate being sad ...and my mind forces me to be sad
troubledGarlic9
Please can I get ur clinic no. Or any no. Through which I can approach u at any time...coz it's been months I've been hiding all this stuff in head over and over again..and once I feel sad I'll have a huge breakdown and thanks to the migraine i have..each time I cry i end up getting a headache in which I'll feel like my nerves r bursting and that is y is try my best not to cry . Literally I can't do anything now
Zoya Ahmad
Nobody wants to feel sad, I can understand, that’s where you will have to fight with yourself that you are above these things and you will let any man have power over you or only you are responsible for your emotions and you will not let a person ruin it you own it.
It’s your life.
Whenver you start to overthink bring yourself back to your present and focus only on the things that you can control.
May be get a new hobby.
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Zoya Ahmad
You can connect to me by booking a session from here only.
I’ll get back to you.
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troubledGarlic9
I'm scared to ask my parents for money to book a session they'll ask me why I'm going to a therapist when I have them
Zoya Ahmad
I am sorry, the only way we can connect on call is via the app.
Otherwise we can talk here.
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troubledGarlic9
Ok then I guess I'll leave it as it is ryt now ...I don't think anyone can help me with this
troubledGarlic9
It's just me!! I'm so dumb..I literally fall fir every guy that comes to me
troubledGarlic9
For*
Zoya Ahmad
Don’t lose hope we can talk here.
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Zoya Ahmad
You need to set boundaries for yourself.
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troubledGarlic9
Will you always be available here?
troubledGarlic9
What kind of boundaries?
troubledGarlic9
It's too late here can I talk tomorrow? Will u be there???
troubledGarlic9
Oh by the way I'm just 16
Zoya Ahmad
Yes, I’ll be here.
Setting boundaries in terms of understanding what you want and how you want fo be treated so that you can clearly tell the person approaching you to never overstep those boundaries.
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