Hopelessness towards life

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Depression

Does any of u feel like u should never have been born? I once met with an accident 12yrs back. I escaped death miraculously and was thankful to god for that. But now I feel like I shouldn't have survived that accident. I feel like there is nothing left for me to hope for in this world. I feel blank. I have no reason why I still exist. I have zero motivation to live now. Before I used to think if I had died in that accident my near n dear ones would have been shattered. But now I don't care about anything or anybody that I feel like my death will have not much effect on anyone. It feels horrible to live with these thoughts.

Solitude

15 Answers
euphoricJaguar2
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Why do you have these thoughts? What's changed?
euphoricJaguar2
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Have you been hurt by your closed ones?
Solitude
I don't feel being loved. I used to feel it before and thought I was so lucky but now I can't even feel it. And now I hate myself and cant love anybody also even my parents.
euphoricJaguar2
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Maybe Start with loving yourself and accepting whatever is. It doesn't matter if no one else does, what matters is you do.
euphoricJaguar2
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I've been at the same place myself. To wish I wasn't born, having found no purpose to the life, and somehow I feel I'm still there. But the difference is I've accepted what goes on. When you love people and they don't love you back, you don't get enough in return of what you give, it happens but life goes on.
Solitude
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Thank you dear friend♥️ I know the first step is self love but I don't know where to start. I feel blank. I miss the old me a lot.
euphoricJaguar2
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You and me are alot alike in that concern. But living in past and missing what you used to be isn't going to help. What matters is, you try to be a better version of whatever you used to be. Keep challenging yourself and make yourself happy in whatever means
Solitude
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I will try to find a way out of this dilemma.. I don't know when or how but will try again. I hope you also be able to handle your life my friend ♥️
euphoricJaguar2
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What I've learned so far is that you can't force someone to love you. People who care about you will stick around no matter what. So instead of feeling down of what you don't have, be grateful for what you already do.
euphoricJaguar2
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Thank you and I wish you best of luck and a very happy new year. May you find happiness and love this year and many more to come.
Solitude
I will try.. I think the first thing I have to make right is my studies... I have been lazy all these days and had no interest in studies. Maybe trying to get involved might help me a bit. Its the starting trouble always.
Solitude
Happy new year dear friend♥️
euphoricJaguar2
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Yess give yourself some time and do the things you like and keep yourself content.
mellowLlama2
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I feel you’re a great person and you’re a believer too first of all God loves you start but doing the stuff you like try to not stay isolated because I feel like that when I’m alone so just keep yourself busy with your studies make yourself proud and stop expecting love from people because only Gods love is endless
hushedGranola4
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You just said you were thankful to God for that but dont you know that,that same God is still watching over you and loving you endlessly ? And you haven't died God saved your life which means there's still a reason for you to live in this world and you need to find out what GOOD LUCK❤

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