how??

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how will I not be affected what people think or say about me? I know we should not bother about others are thinking ...but suppose if u meet a friend and that friend is talking to u nicely but deep inside his heart he is judging me .what shall I do? how can I ignore? how to not give a shit about others opinion?

DeadTree · Answer

don't call him a friend, they don't judge, stuff like this are heartbreaking but we should not worry about that, depending on what they say we can respond but not taking their words as matter is best, don't feel down and we can always talk just let me know when u need to talk

obsessedBasmati3 · Answer

ok .my friend...whenever I want I will comment here ryt?

DeadTree · Answer

sure it's my pleasure

DeadTree · Answer

it's just i understand ur pain, so I'll try best to help

obsessedBasmati3 · Answer

okk...dead tree but can u just something which will make my personality calm coz I get angry too fast..what shall I do?

obsessedBasmati3 · Answer

and when people judge me..I get tensed and angry at same time leading to too much chaos in life

DeadTree · Answer

oh well often happens with me too, ya just gotta stay calm when it happens, try to think about something else when anyone judge and try to calm down and when ur free, let's talk here.. I'm na good listener and I'm sure talking stuff out with someone will be best

obsessedBasmati3 · Answer

ohhkk 👍

obsessedBasmati3 · Answer

thank you 😊

DeadTree · Answer

well no need for thanks, we all are here cuz of problems in life and to support others and get some support, tbh i don't really have good enough friends and the person i trusted most hurt me most now and etc forget it

obsessedBasmati3 · Answer

yeahhh..

DeadTree · Answer

I'll be. glad if i can just do something for you

DeadTree · Answer

btw can i judge you? judging by ur texts i can say ur someone of a good heart, do you mind my judgement? (tbh i wanted to compliment ya)

obsessedBasmati3 · Answer

aww really..but my friends and my once upon a time best friend then think I m not a right person to talk..I m not worthy enough..so yeahhh

DeadTree · Answer

sorry but don't mind me if i use harsh words for them, tbh i can understand, btw do u trust ppl easily?

obsessedBasmati3 · Answer

yeah..very easily..like if someone talks to me nicely .then I share everything with the flow..I always think next time I will control but again I start sharing everything things

DeadTree · Answer

aww ur my type xd and ig u shared a lot to me already, aren't ya afraid if i will be like them?

obsessedBasmati3 · Answer

idk..

DeadTree · Answer

don't worry, i am on ur place too, worried to trust anyone

obsessedBasmati3 · Answer

okk..what happened to u?

DeadTree · Answer

someone i trusted more than myself threw me like a doll, i got panic and hurt myself but she doesn't care

obsessedBasmati3 · Answer

oh..

DeadTree · Answer

sorry if I maked u uncomfortable, btw tell me more about you, i wonder how you are

DeadTree · Answer

tbh I'm worried a bit already (idk why.. is it normal?)

obsessedBasmati3 · Answer

I m good.. dealing with stuffs feeling guilty

obsessedBasmati3 · Answer

worried about?

DeadTree · Answer

why feeling guilty?

DeadTree · Answer

I'm worried about you a bit

obsessedBasmati3 · Answer

why worried? feeling guiy becoz people r saying all my fault...Ig people r crt

DeadTree · Answer

um yk sometimes ppl just want us to dig our grave, i also got angry cuz of that and got heavy punishment and insult but If others do same they doesn't-

obsessedBasmati3 · Answer

exactly bro...how should we manage all these?

excitedTomatoe7 · Answer

Better to stay away from such people. We never know what really goes on in their heart. Either stay away completely, or if not possible, maintain your distance. And as long as you believe in yourself and love yourself, what anybody else says does not matter

DeadTree · Answer

well avoid those people and try to calm down urself and ignore them and then u should went all that emotion on someone, u can take me, i am a good listener

obsessedBasmati3 · Answer

okyy thank you guyzz..for support 👍💜

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