How to communicate with my rude ex.

Question

I love my girlfriend from deep of my heart.   There was a time, she listened to me with respect, if I suggested her about anything. Now a days she's rude if I suggest her anything , like 'i don't want to talk about it, I'll see it for myself'. Anything that comes from my mouth she opposes that. Also we had breakup few months ago.

pittyful · Answer

give her some time

adoringFish2 · Answer

I had given her time of 1 month

Aanaa · Answer

I might relate to her, cause I was in the same situation and trust me it's not easy from our pov either. she MIGHT be having family issues or less self love which makes her trust people less and try be independent.  just make sure she knows you're there for her even though she's enough.

adoringFish2 · Answer

the scene was like, due to covid we were in long distance. one day she started giving signs for breakup, I didn't take it seriously. then my friend called and said I saw your girl with someone other, she was doing this and that. from  that day I became insecure.

adoringFish2 · Answer

she liked my dominant nature, so I immediately said let's breakup and I'll not allow this kind of shit, then next day she said she can't live without me, and the very moment I made my mistake , I said. me too, I can't live without you, I was feeling this and that. at the very moment her tone and attitude completely changed.

adoringFish2 · Answer

later on I cried and begged her, so she knows how much non confident I'm.  so now whenever I talk to her, she assumes like I'm talking in insecure way, even if I'm not.

pittyful · Answer

I think I can relate you I have been in relationship in which girl is dominate,  she broke up with me for even small reason I always beg her later it turn toxic relationship, she started to abuse me, could you share your problems bit more

adoringFish2 · Answer

yeah buddy it's turning toxic

adoringFish2 · Answer

one day she's nice to me, other day she's like I'm nobody.

pittyful · Answer

who proposed/ loved first

adoringFish2 · Answer

I proposed her, but I think she liked/respected me already.

pittyful · Answer

there's unwritten rule people who purpose first became obedient to others!

adoringFish2 · Answer

as I was from other department in college, she messaged me on my birthday, and said did you recognized me.

adoringFish2 · Answer

from there our communication started

pittyful · Answer

I pray for you to have good life bro, as experienced person I just advising one thing to you, always prioritize your peace 1st , if it getting toxic just get out off relationship! and never hurt yourself or beg others for love! I did this mistake and I regret it

adoringFish2 · Answer

I think nowadays, why I should go with someone other, Start all over again. I can try to make out the issues between us. I'll like to not give up. but also it's hurting me more, like I'm picking up gloves from fire, getting burned up from the same that was meant to protect me.

I am not fit for anyone

Unloving

Need someone to talk to!!

I really want to change