if so then he is trying to make you jealous and he wants your attention .
shyopia11
i am a boy
suku
ohh.. then what reason they gave you that why she is behaving this way
shyopia11
actually she's been ignoring me, and I've been so desperate that now she's irritated of me... I've decided to give space... cause now she don't want me to talk with her at all, on any subject
shyopia11
she's been avoiding this topic since start
suku
were you gf n bf ?
shyopia11
we were pretty close... or atleast I thought so
suku
what you did ??
suku
that now she is not even want to talk to you?
shyopia11
actually one boy proposed her, and she said no to him, but she was giving him more time than she was to me... she said with father's oth that she's not in relation with that boy neither interested. but they were meeting and spending time everyday... and i was at distance... away from her... when ever she met him i felt jelous, because she was giving him more importance and i felt that she was reducing contact with me
shyopia11
and i asked her to either distance herself from him or from me
shyopia11
actually I was emotionally investing so much energy in her
shyopia11
and for her i had to let go some of my friends. and i had expections that she'll respect my sacrifices
shyopia11
but instead she started giving reasons.. and started showing that she cares for me, but in truth she was ignoring me... which made me more desperate
shyopia11
so everytime she met him, and i had called her... she would receive my call and say me to call again after some time... but due to insane jelousy i had in my heart, i would just call many times constantly untill she would be frustrated
suku
you just express her all your feelings. like not on phone or text. just meet her some place where you both can talk privately.. but place must be public. then express her what you feel for her and what you want from her... and be true to her. if she wants you she will be with you if she doesn't want you than you should respect her decision. because she has her choice. you can't force anybody to love you.
shyopia11
i felt betrayed not in just as friend.. but also after when I expressed my past and my feelings for her
suku
ohh you should not call her again and again
shyopia11
i did that, and yes she wants me to be in her life.. but she don't want me to have any conversation with her or have any expectations with her. she says me her friend but she's spending all time with the only person i didn't wanted her to
shyopia11
it literally feels like i should move on... but we are in same college, and she's constantly in front of me, holding the hands of other boy... saying to be just as friend
shyopia11
and having conversations with everyone but me
suku
i think she is not interested in you.. that's why she doesn't care for you. otherwise she would be caring for you. And i know it's hard for you that she is not getting that you are very emotional to her. but fact is woman know everything if she is ignoring that means she don't want you. you should move away from her.
shyopia11
everytime like literally everytime I pass by her, she looks at me, but we don't do any conversation
shyopia11
thanks๐ฅบ, i am going to... but just it feels so wrong that I expressed all my past my feelings my fears to the only person... and she did the same thing that would hurt me the most.
suku
what makes you think that she gonna come with you ??
shyopia11
i know she's not gonna come with me, i never expected that, i just was emotionally attached...
suku
it's okay bro.. sometimes it happens. but we have to be strong. but if there is some misunderstanding then you should sort it out
shyopia11
1
i apologized for all i did, she said it's ok, and i forgive you, i don't have any anger or bad feeling for you... but i don't want to talk with you
suku
1
you are making yourself emotional fool then.. you already know that she won't come and you are still waiting .. you are wasting your time. usko show kro tumhe ab koi farak ni padta and make her feel that she is no more important to you. it's the only way she may come to you
suku
1
bro than she is clear she don't want you. she don't have any feelings for you.
shyopia11
yes
shyopia11
that's what I want...
suku
1
you can have fun with other frnds
shyopia11
i want to move on, just she being around me constantly, makes me feel grief again, guilty and i can't focus..
suku
make new frnds
shyopia11
I'll surely try to make new friends
suku
1
and just enjoy your colg flirt with every other girl
shyopia11
just this experience was so hard for me, as I'm so much of emotional sensitive and introvert person.
shyopia11
1
๐คฃ yeah I'll surely flirt with every other girl
shyopia11
abhi apane ko farak nahi padata wo baat kare ya na kare๐
suku
yeahh... there are many women out there waiting for you ๐๐
shyopia11
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๐ thanks for that, really convo with you was appreciable, i needed that
suku
welcome ๐
suku
have a great day
shyopia11
1
you have a great day to๐คโฃ๏ธ
artisticchowder9
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Girls are very good in forgetting and sometimes emotionless. I know many example where relationship went upto 8 years (even married) and girl left and moved on with other person very simple. But boys are not like that, they are too attached. You also need to think like the girl, be strong move on, develop yourself, Be happy.. No need to prove yourself to her, No need to show revenge, nothing. Just live for yourself (Kind of become selfish)
shyopia11
for sure @artisticchowder9 I'll live for myself... โค๏ธ