how to deal with possessiveness

Question

how to deal with possessiveness over my boyfriend.. i am really tired of my possessiveness... bcoz of this i just fight and fight.. and so i have made my image as a fighting girl who doesn't understand anything... now he is too tired of my fights that he has now no one ... he left every female friends... but all his friends were flirty... moreover he is not loving me either... he has just become silent... the more i try to discuss the more he avoids conversation with me ... he is just talking to me normally.

farshy756 · Answer

why you don't trust your boyfriend?

rrkk · Answer

because I just can't.. it's my nature....

rrkk · Answer

i have so much past trauma that i just can't trust anyone

rrkk · Answer

I think I must break this relationship and be alone forever

wolfalpha · Answer

Break up immediately...trust me when I say this, my ex was share the same traits as you and I do understand that's possessiveness. And I used to clear her misunderstandings and we were happy but things turned wrong and we broker up (the reason was something else) but I used to handle her possessiveness very nicely (she used to tell me this)

wolfalpha · Answer

some one who loves you would handle your insecurities and your possessiveness very neatly

wolfalpha · Answer

it will hurt for sometime but trust it's going to be better for you

i am an immature person so don't judge me i am mental patient

hello

Frustrating

help me please