How to talk to relatives?..

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Hi, This is my first msg on this community.. I feel scared of informal talks to my relatives.. i have been more of an introvert.. that doesn't mean i don't like talking.. i like to talk.. bt sometimes i feel i overdo it.. like may b my talks become too much sweet, which other person do not expect or they do not care about it... and after that talk i start feeling too much weird and not able to stop thinking that i messed up this time too.. and that person might be thinking about my foolishness..  how should i stop messing things like this and talk like a mature adult with relatives?

wandrlust · Answer

how old are you??

Rose1 · Answer

27

skylar · Answer

hm... truth to be told you seem more anxious about what they MAY think of something u said? am I right?

Rose1 · Answer

yes true..

skylar · Answer

it's normal to think in that way, but it's not in our hands of what they may  think of something u said.... it is the least thing u should be bothered of.

wandrlust · Answer

just take your time and work on it .i actually had that kind of problem so I would keep quiet every time. first of all ,think that the mistakes or embarrassing moments will be forgotten ,it only stays for some time.you are not the main character .i would actually said it to myself and calm my nerves.starting ,you should be comfortable and open up when you trust the other person and feel more relaxed that way you can slowly be more confident and relaxed

Frustrating

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help me please