I am fed up, I want to leave my husband and 3 kids, and just start over. they are teenagers, they are good kids. my husband just doesn't hear or see me, I have been with him23 years and not once has he celebrated my birthday for me, not once a gift or anything. what am I doing wrong. even my parents didn't want to celebrate my birthday. I feel so fed up, some days I feel crazy or wonder if I'm not dead.