I am in a

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I am in a relationship with married man, it turned into love, but i am very frustrated, guilty, feel like no love or empathy is there for me. i feel stuck.

Useless · Answer

leave bro what are you doing what you think he is Bollywood star will leave his wife and come to you he is just using you taking advantage that's it nothing more you are wasting you time and emotions

cynicalpear2 · Answer

i feel the same, i have tried multiple times to get over it, but I can't, feeling worthless.

Useless · Answer

you have to talk new people make frnd to ignore him block him

Useless · Answer

otherwise the more you give him time the more you ruined your life

cynicalpear2 · Answer

it's been 4 years already.

Useless · Answer

still right now block him

Useless · Answer

are kidding me 😬 in 4 years he didn't come what you want from him?

cynicalpear2 · Answer

i am trying my best, he says he will leave everything eventually, but seem to not bother, when treating me right

Useless · Answer

he will say bro you love him maybe sleeping also don't know but mentally you are in hell

cynicalpear2 · Answer

i have everything dependent on him, i make less friends, so he is basically my support system.

Useless · Answer

make more frnd change your support system

cynicalpear2 · Answer

no one in this place whom I can trust so much, it has basically been hell, i am more concerned about what he might be doing right now, rather than focusing on myself.

Useless · Answer

talk to her wife

Useless · Answer

make her life hell

cynicalpear2 · Answer

she knows already.

Useless · Answer

wow so go and stay in there house

Useless · Answer

you know you are illegal wife or gf who will never get the place of wife untill he give divorce to her wife according to indan law

cynicalpear2 · Answer

I know, i have been thinking it since very long, day and night, but the moment I am with him, I forget. I am trying to cut myself out, asap.

Useless · Answer

first stop meeting him try to divert your mind

cynicalpear2 · Answer

will try doing this.

Useless · Answer

no you don't try

Useless · Answer

just do it

Useless · Answer

don't make your life hell

cynicalpear2 · Answer

thank you for the support

Useless · Answer

any time

Useless · Answer

but do that you need it seriously or one day you have baby and you don't know what to do

cynicalpear2 · Answer

yes. thanks.

solidoatmeal9 · Answer

trust me..unless he is very strong to leave his family...he won't be with you forever..! leave him and the right person will come to you

cynicalpear2 · Answer

i am trying, today is holiday, he just texted me good morning, and we haven't spoke since morning, i feel frustrated a lot.

Useless · Answer

good don't reply him watch web series movie but don't text him

hello

Frustrating

help me please

how do I change for the better?