I am worried about my friend

Question

I am worrying about my friend a lot. I don't know why I feel so attached with him.. but looking him hanging out with wrong people just makes me feel worried . He hangs out with girls who already have boyfriend.. these girls are just the attention seeker and cheating their boyfriend by flirting and being touchy with my friends. And my friends totally enjoys their company. whole day they keep doing hookah, smoking and drinking. So i don't like anyone of them, But still I care for him and wish he would just get out of this bad company and be a good mannered. Please suggest me what can I do so that i would stop worrying and move on from this attachment.

excitedTomatoe7 · Answer

You can try talking to your friend and politely warn him against drawbacks of hanging out with the wrong sort. These things seem cool at first, but as you grow up, you only realise you've wasted your time with the wrong sort doing utterly useless things. Talk to him and see if it helps 😊

keisha2 · Answer

I feel why should I tell to someone who doesn't even thinks I am his good friend. What if he says its none of your business and its my choice. The girls he is hanging out are their kind of favorite one. Now he has forgotten the days when I was the only person who helped him.

keisha2 · Answer

i feel i have put lot of efforts and emotions in tgus relationship..🥺

excitedTomatoe7 · Answer

If you feel so then there is no point in talking. After all the efforts you've put in, you deserve the best. And if you aren't getting that, then it is best to focus on just yourself. Maybe when he'll realise your worth, he'll understand what you are now trying to explain to him. But for now, I would suggest not to follow his activities like you used to. let him be, and you focus on yourself

Frustrating

help me please

how do I change for the better?