just think on his behalf, it's not always about the guy is listening to his parents or his wife.. may be he is in center of both his parents and you.. and second thing I don't know exactly about your scenario but if it's love marriage then you have to talk to him calmly and make him understand coz it's only upto you guys, your parents and his parents aren't responsible for this.. and if it's arranged marriage and you are not able to adjust then you have to include your parents as well as your in laws into this and ask them to resolve the issue by meeting together.. do not get depressed, just take deep breaths whenever you feel down andt talk to anyone near you..talking is really effective when it's done with a person you like to talk.. be patient and give time to yourself and your husband.. try to keep your family together.. When you stay silent most of the time they will start understanding you and then you can see the changes... all the best