I cheated on my boyfriend but I love him

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I can't keep this to myself anymore so I'm venting out. I went to a party on Diwali with my friends while my boyfriend was on a vacation to Ladakh. I met somebody there and I ended up kissing him for just a moment. I got away from the situation soon after but I can't deny the truth, I did cheat. I haven't been able to tell this to my boyfriend because I really do love him a lot and I'm scared that he will breakup with me when he finds out. I feel like such a bad person.

crummyTomatoe4

4 Answers
selfishPretzels4
What you did was wrong but it's worse if you don't tell him the truth. Since you were there with your friend group, he will find out eventually so it's better that you tell him yourself.
E_LFC
Hey, I've been cheated on in the past and I didn't find out for around 4 months. Take it from me, he'd appreciate it a lot more if you just got it out on the open now rather than wasting his time. Give him the chance to make a decision and move forward.
ferventFlamingo1
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You did a mistake girl! But you didn't cheat him ,Say this to your bf and apologize ! Yes it will become big issue between you but when he finds out this by any other means then only this will be changed as cheating ,what you done is mistake if you hide then it will become cheat! In other hand any of your friends or anyone may blackmail you with this
Azaan
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Just let him know..Its not fair on him to be in this situation ..Say asap ..Best way of apologise is changed behaviour..He doesnt desrve this neither do you..Just let him know..let him make a call..better to confess than regret.

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