um..I can talk to you if you want? if you don't mind me being a weird awkward person...
i dnt mind
so..how's your day?
I'm feeling a bit stressed lately trying to find a job...
I too feel like that sometimes and I feel like no one gets it, even family can't feel that void sometimes, it's hard I know but try to take one day at a time .if you Wanna be friends or someone to talk to , hit me up.
my day not so great startrd with.my boyfriend dnt know if he is the relationship its not clear if he love me or not cause he ignores me doesnt talk to me want anything to do.with me telling me am.a low key depressed person
oh..I see sorry to hear that I cant really gives any useful advice on relationships when I have not been in a relationship before...
the feeling of finding a job and being rejected can be stressful. but its one step at a time find something to do like entrepreneurship
I hope you find something small at least to be happy about today like maybe eating your favorite food or watching your favorite movie or tv shows just general things, I hope this helps
do you have any advice on how to stay motivated to keep moving and stay strong because I have been procrastinating for some time...
it might sound tough but in this life you want something good for yourself you need to fight with all you have. focus on something you like and fight untill.you get wat you want....your job its coming but have something thats will keep your mind start selling even lemonade on the street
@galexie yes can we be friends
thank you I appreciate your response
let's all be friends @unloveddepressedperson @Galexie
that will be great
this gap of feeling unloved i have been filling it with relationship i get in to one i love so much but in return am.not loved back myb its a problem. this has been stressing me a lot. sometimes i get ignored i get insults. i try talking about my abusive childhood noone wants to listen even my father i once told him about me being abused he didnt believe me. all my life i never had a sense of belonging i tell myself.noone wants to be with me noone loves me
I'm sure there's someone out there that loves you
noone loves me that's the conclusion i have. am starting not not believe in love anymore
what about your friends?
i dnt have friends am just lonely person
I mean sometimes it's lonely for me too because no one can truly understand you but yourself and I always just try to cope with doing things that makes me happy like hobbies. I start playing kalimba because it's cute and drawing even though I'm bad at it just so I won't wallow and stew in my own dark negative place inside my head because I believe "things are what you make of them" or maybe you can get out of your comfort zone and try to make friends because "an idle mind is the devil's playground" so do your best, but do take what I say with a grain of salt I'm not the best person for advice....
@unloveddepresssedperson @Youcancancallmesnow....let's start a WhatsApp group or telegram
@galexie a whatsapp group its ideal
then contacts then ...
wait how about instagram
I also prefer whatsapp
I don't really want to post my number here
so it's easier to use Instagram or email
what if we all send our numbers to you on Instagram and you form the group @youcancallmesnow
or email the contacts
lets do emails
my pain started when i lost my mother and sister the same year and i was 4 years old. today i want to open up nd say it out how it has affected me. i never got mother's love i always ask myself why she left me a young age. this has made me feel that everyone is leaving nd noone wants to stay in my life just like my mothernd sister. i have never dealt with this. sometimes i would open up but noone listened or wanted to support me. my father cldnt even support me. i believe this affected my behaviour nd caused me to be this shy kid without any confidence. grief its a painful thing